what's going on blades. so my girlfriend of 9 months just broke up with me. I can't believe this is happening. I've gone through so much with this girl, i lost my virginity to her and this was the longest relationship i've been in. she helped me through a lot and made me so happy. now i'm just so depressed. i don't know why i'm posting this on a weed forum, i just need to get it all out. I need some good vibes from you guys
Toke up. Surround yourself with some good friends and talk it out. That's what I did when my boy friend of two years broke up with me. Sent from my IdeaTabA1000L-F using Grasscity Forum mobile app
My condolences, right now you probably feel like you've lost something very dear to you, and it's natural to feel that way. Just know that there are still other people around you that can help you. Try not to mourn the loss too much though, accept that both of you must have changed and that what happened was inevitably going to happen, the sooner the less painful.
best advice right here. just go have fun with your buddies, take your mind off things, start talking to other girls again. Sent from my iPhone using Grasscity Forum
You're probably a chump and wiped her ass, so she was like nuh huh i can wipe my own ass. What i'm saying is, you nailed the white knight act. Maybe I'm wrong. Who knows, thats just my guess on your shitty relationship.
Back in the saddle plenty of fish in the sea you'll find a +1 she wasn't the one anyway most people go through it etc etc as for the good vibes? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CUCKfo1KZPA
My apologies, it may have came off a little harsh. Just trying to say there maybe a lesson in all this.
Definitely this, alcohol isn't really much of a help. Just give yourself time bro, as they say time heals all wounds.
On to the next one. if you just hang out by yourself your gonna dwell on the past and you're just gonna feel more hurt. Start talking to other girls and hang out with your homeboys.
Have some drinks, have some smoke, tell your friends about what happened ONCE and then just enjoy your night, gettin shit faced and you sit there and talk about the past like its still happening.. Like a missed field goal or some shit, shit happens, practice and move on
People said drinking leads to drunk dialing, just delete her number. That's why I don't memorize a girls number.
Trust me man she did you a favor. These days first loves rarely last "forever". Many people I know found out they missed out on a a lot and end up regretting/resenting their partner. To have 1 relationship/love stunts your emotional growth/maturity. Just another lesson in life, you have plenty more lessons to learn young padawan. Chalk it up to experience. You'll probably end up looking back on it fondly at some point and laugh at yourself that you got upset all those years ago.
thanks blades, i've thought about it and i think i'm just gonna be better off without her. no woman no cry right?
hell yeah. Seriously man it's not worth being a sad and bitchy over a girl. It'll only hurt you. Girls are always have the upperhand in most situations. They can usually find a guy right away and can with no problems. Do shit to get your self in a better place. Make her see she's the one that lost something good. Nahmsayin