My gf is 24 years old and afraid to have sex. She gives me head every day but I really need to get laid before I lose my mind. She started taking anti-anxiety medication prescribed by her doctor that's helped her somewhat but she is petrified that it is going to hurt. Since the medication she has allowed me to finger her which before she would try to stop me if I tried. But she is still afraid of sex. She says she needs to be on birth control and use condoms because she is paranoid of getting pregnant and that she needs to talk to her counselor some more before she is ready. One of her co-workers isn't helping too much the woman is pregnant and tells her it hurts every time she has sex, I try to tell her every woman is different and it might hurt at first but she will more than likely get used to it. Does anyone have any advice for making it easier?