So my friend found 12 weed plants in this guys backyard that lives real close to him. Last night he asked me to help him take some of a plant. I tell him no and it's a scummy thing to do. Well tonight he got 2 more people to be look out while he chopped some of this dudes plant down. He showed me what he got all proud. Seriously considering dropping him as a friend which is a damn shame because he's a good friend just a shitty human being. UPDATE: So he decided to go about selling it. And apparently last night someone maced him and took him for an OZ. Karma baby, gotta love it. And that guy who stole off him will get his eventually too I'm sure.
God damn dude I might not totally drop him as a friend because it seems like you two were close. I definitely wouldn't trust him as much though. That is a pretty lame thing to do for sure
Yeah like he said ^ don't drop him as a friend, but I wouldn't completely trust him. That's a really shitty thing for him to do.
What's funny is he's one of the few people i know that I can loan anything to or leave him alone with my stuff because he's completely trustworthy with his friends. It's strangers that he doesn't give a shit about. Which is fucked up because friend/stranger, we're all people and you don't steal from them.
I have friends that are the same way man, I know what you mean. It definitely is an awkward situation
Yeah, and I mean hey, strangers are just friends you haven't met yet. One of my best buddies is kind of like this. He's trustworthy with your stuff, but he'll randomly steal shit/vandalize shit(doesn't really vandalize a ton anymore). I think he just gets a kick out of it. Tried to convince him it's stupid and he's ruining some guy's day, but to no avail.
[quote name='"JuanRing"']Yeah, and I mean hey, strangers are just friends you haven't met yet. One of my best buddies is kind of like this. He's trustworthy with your stuff, but he'll randomly steal shit/vandalize shit(doesn't really vandalize a ton anymore). I think he just gets a kick out of it. Tried to convince him it's stupid and he's ruining some guy's day, but to no avail.[/quote] Dude, you just described this guy down to a T haha. And the thing about the strangers is very true
I probably wouldn't have helped (not because I'm a good person but because that's how people get shot) but I definitely would ask him to smoke me up more often! But seriously, I wouldn't stop being friends with him just because of that. Maybe if he hurt someone, sure, but not because he stole some plants.
Chopping someones illegal plants is not that gnarly...I mean where in plain sight are they growing this that he even knows its there. not all that scummy IMO...it's not a cool thing to do but meh real close neighbor? I don't think i would want to play that game if they see/catch the kid, he deserves whatever is coming to him
I feel yah OP. I do have a few really close friends like that. I can leave my wallet out, or my weed and not have to worry. But with other people that they don't know, they'll snag whatever
I mean you can't regulate another man's morals and ethics (or lack thereof), but you do have the choice of who you want to keep company with, and who you don't. If I were in your position, OP, I'd drop him in a second. I don't have time for children in my life anymore. I'm a grown man, and I want people around me who bring positivity to the relationship. I don't want to always be worrying while we're out and about that a friend is going to wind up getting us in trouble. Thieves are scum. I don't care what anybody says. If he'll steal from some random dude he'll eventually steal from you too. At the very least keep him at arm's length.
[quote name='"cookiecrisp"']I mean you can't regulate another man's morals and ethics (or lack thereof), but you do have the choice of who you want to keep company with, and who you don't. If I were in your position, OP, I'd drop him in a second. I don't have time for children in my life anymore. I'm a grown man, and I want people around me who bring positivity to the relationship. I don't want to always be worrying while we're out and about that a friend is going to wind up getting us in trouble. Thieves are scum. I don't care what anybody says. If he'll steal from some random dude he'll eventually steal from you too. At the very least keep him at arm's length.[/quote] Actually that's exactly what I've been doing this past year. Cutting all the bullshit people I spend my time with out of my life and it has definitely benefitted (spelling) me because of that.. Don't need the frustration. But ya, I will definitely be talking to him about this and seeing what's up.
respect to op man, you got your head on straight, fuck the kid though, ask him why he did it? is he really that desperate? or was it cause he didnt like the kid? did he "need" it? idk man, its a dick move, but its done, so you can either let him smoke you up on that free tree and try to rekindle, or tell him to fuck off and never connect with that person ever again
Shit like that is happening all the time over here. People are sitting in their car in front of the growhop, checking people who load their car full with equipment, follow them to their house, and about 3 months later they raid the house. They call it ''knippen en rippen'' in holland, translated. ''cutting and ripping'' haha. I have friends who I can trust with anything, one of my buddies even sleeps in my house from time to time when I'm a few days gone for work. But if a stranger would let him sleep in his house he would call someone who buys whole inventories while the owner of the house is tied up in the bathroom.
Im sure if he asked, the dude would have shared or smoked up with ya im sure! There is a brethren between us smokers! Family against the pigs and gov!
Yeah but to be honest.. its stupid to have plants at a place where one can see it. I remember as a kid I stole grapes from my neighboors plants haha.
[quote name='"StudStudly"']respect to op man, you got your head on straight, fuck the kid though, ask him why he did it? is he really that desperate? or was it cause he didnt like the kid? did he "need" it? idk man, its a dick move, but its done, so you can either let him smoke you up on that free tree and try to rekindle, or tell him to fuck off and never connect with that person ever again[/quote] Thanks man. And it's like JuanRing said, I think he just gets a kick out of stuff like this. And honestly I don't even know if I want to smoke it. I'd rather not smoke if it means it's stolen weed.
If he'll steal from someone else eventually he'll steal from you too. Speaking from experience. Get him outta your life. My 2 cents.