what the title says pretty much. i gave him close to 200 dollars to buy something lets call him J because we were going to each put in money to get a better deal. and he picked it up but partied that night. but he came back in the morning thankfully. but his mom told us all that we have to help them move all the stuff and take it to her new home. so we did i didn't see anything with it because. we were smoking just trying to get shit done with a moving van. then on our return i guess my mom came to pick me up and i was blown. so my cousin stayed with my stuff.(also we were with my even closer cousin lets call him Tom too one that i grew up with and still hangout with to this day) so i still didnt think much of it. until i called Tom my closer cousin i told him hey when can i get my share. and he said that J needed to separate it. so i gave him a day and then i called Tom again and he told me that J went to a far city and there's no fucking way i will be able to get over there. and it seemed that my close cousin Tom disappeared as well because he was staying at J's old house at the time and had no where else to stay. this was my birthday money too. this also happened last year. i know it's been awhile but everytime i think about it makes me want to get a gat off the street a put a bullet in my cousins kneecap for never giving me my share. what should i do? i know i fucked up big time but never in my life i thought my own family would run off with my property. and not bother to hit me up. should i get over this? also pisses me off that my childhood cousin didn't bother to help his little cousin out either. only makes me think that he got a share to shut his mouth and deny any wrongdoing to his little cousin
You should do nothing. Some people are just scumbags but it's been a year and it was only $200. Sure that's a fair share of money but it isn't worth "put[ting] a bullet in [your] cousins kneecap" over it. Live and learn
Probably but don't expect much from it. I'm assuming he's not exactly rich so the chances of him handing you $200 is pretty slim.
I know this feel bro. In this case, I would just let it go but it fucking pisses me off when a family member takes money from you.
Consider it a fairly cheap price to find out what kind of character your cousin has. I would put it in the back of my mind until I seen my cousin again and I'd beat the piss out of him. Then forgive him and move on. If you don't think you can take him in a fair fight, sucker punch him after all he didn't give you the heads up that he was ripping you off, did he? The one thing you can't do is just let it go because then you know what kind of character you have. Beginning 3rd grow(Apprentice) - BC Big Bud Advocating violence is not allowed here - WW
damn that was a great response. thanks and yeah i probably cant take him hes like 24 and did some mma. all i got on him is muscle but i still have to learn mma just to be on equal fighting terms