As soon as I come out of my room, she is all over me. I get the door open and deef the wet food to her. But if there is a single guy next to me she runs away. A guy used to blow smoke in her face, disgusting.
Let the cat in the room with you at night. The over excitement is because she's delighted to see you or maybe she could be horney. Female cats that haven't been neutered love nothing more than sniffing a sweaty male ballsack. I bet that ballsack of yours sure smells all sweet to a highly sexed feline. Either way bring the cat to bed, she'll be satisfied in the morning and should leave you alone.