As many here among us know, my memory skills and ability to analyze situations are somewhat...uhmm..... interesting. Today I was given a situation and asked to analyze it and give my opinion. I'm going to post some details and I want some of YOUR opinions. Crazy quasi-single girl, 25 yro, seperated with 2 kids, country girl with small town experiences, flirty and pretty. Her Boyfriend, 30 yro, never been married, comes from a country well to do family with plenty of money. OK characters set. My mission, if I choose to accept it, is to analyze their relationship, point out any potential defects, and strategize a plan to bring the characters to resolution. OK here we go..... On the plus side of the boyfriend he's offered her one of his family trailers for her and her kids to live in, rent free but she pays utilities for as long as she wants.... He has introduced her to his family and friends She has met his mother in person. He tries to get on the good side of her friends, family, and co-workers He keeps his refrigerator and bathroom stocked up with her supplies He has asked her if she can have kids He has mentioned the possibility of marriage, passingly ON the Negative side: She always has to meet him at his family' cabin. he never picks her up or goes to her place. He says he's scared that her ex-husband -to-be will catch him there an whip his ass. He's offered to meet her kids but has always backed out before ever doing it. He has a full-time girlfriend that he see between times with the girl. The girl usually knows when the other girl has been to his place because the sheets have been changed. He claims he enever sleeps with his girlfriend and he changes the sheets because the girls hair is everywhere. He says it isn't fair for him to dump his girlfriend until the girls divorce is final. A year ago, another girlfriend of his wanted to get married, but he said he wasn't into a long term commitment. This is her first relationship since her seperation. OK the end. Now what is your opinion of this situation, and NO its not me, never been me, etc. It's my wife's secretary but that's a secret between us so don't tell anyone or I'll be in trouble with the wife. My view is this, the guy is playing the girl for all the booty she will give him. He's old enough and rich enough to know how to play this girl to get the all the sex he can. He's telling her what she wants to hear so she will keep coming back. My advice to the girl, Call his bluff. Tell him that the divorce will soon be finalized and they can get married right away and he can dump his other girlfriend. Wait for his reaction, and any crawfishing or backstepping indicates that he's playing her for sex.