Mother wishes she had an abortion to stop her 15yo son from watching porn

Discussion in 'General' started by Vicious, Aug 9, 2007.

  1. Stolen shamelessly from Sho_Nuff82 from IGN:



    Disturbed Parent posted:<hr noshade="noshade">
    http://www.womensspace.org/Feminist_Motherhood/182.html

    I have three sons, ages 16, 15, and 12. I was also in an abusive marriage for ten years in which my 15 year old was a frequent target of my x husband. These boys had a rough time of it, as did we all.

    After I left my husband my children acted out for a short time, we all spoke of feeling relief and feeling safe yet there were still some rough spots as I got the hang of trying to do it alone.

    Several years ago my accountability program found that the computer had been accessing pornography. Turns out it was my middle son. To date he has been 'caught' accessing pornography many times since then. He was 13 I think when this started.

    I banned him from the computer, but after a few months I would allow him to be on it for short periods of time. Each and every single time my son would access pornography within days (and sometimes hours) of being allowed back online. He was aware that he would be caught because the computers are monitored but he chose to do it anyway.

    Most recently my youngest son allowed my middle son to play with his PSP. Brandon (the middle child) used it to immediately access pornography online. The child is now banned from computers, video games and so forth. I've talked until I'm blue in the face, I've grown angry and yelled, I've cried when I was alone and when I was in front of him. I've had him read Dworkin, my site, and other places (namely OAG's site) and I still can't unseat this problem. He can recite feminist literature all day long, he can understand the tenets, the ideas behind it, how it links together but he will not allow this knowledge to stand in the way of his porn use.

    I don't think I'm looking for advice (I've tried everything I could think of so far) but more a place to simply be sad. I can clearly see why he's looking at pornography, I've figured all that out readily enough, but I can't seem to make it stop.

    I know, that as soon as my child leaves my home and moves into his own place that he will be looking at porn immediately. I know that I am raising a problem for women. I know that this child will one day grow and will fully absorb the messages that porn sends to men. I know that my child masturbates to degradation of my people (when I use that phrase I mean womyn) and that with every orgasm he will further solidify his own hatred of and superiority over, women.

    I know that there will likely come a day where my son coerces a young woman into sex (rape) and there isn't a damned thing I can do about it. I look into the eyes of my son and they still sparkle like they did when he was a baby, but he's not a baby anymore, he's growing into a man and that man will have trained himself to degrade women before he leaves my home.


    As a radical feminist who puts women first I cannot begin to determine what I should do with regards to this issue. My heart breaks because there is nothing I can do to protect the womyn he will come into contact with.

    I have three boys. One of them is lost to me and as a mother and a radical womyn this breaks my heart in a way I can scarcely express. I don't know if it says something terrible about me, but you know what haunts me late at night? More than anything else? I know, in my heart of hearts that, knowing what I know now, if I had it to do over again I would have had that abortion.

    I also find myself blaming myself over and over again, even though that radical womyn inside of me stands up and yells that I'm placing blame in the wrong place. I'm not sure what I intended to say with this message. I began writing it this morning and put it away again and finally decided to finish it this evening. I think that maybe I just wanted to share, I keep trying with Brandon and I keep failing. He simply doesn't care. When he wants to jerk off, everything goes right out the window. <hr noshade="noshade">​
    I thought people who talked shit about weed were bad. I completely forgot about feminist. And no, it's not a typo, she really does use the phrase "womyn". :rolleyes:
     
  2. What were you doing on that site?
     
  3. Masterbation is a key element in every teenage boys life.

    Until he gets laid, his hand and penis are his two best friends. He will do his darnest to make sure both of those parts stay in as best goddamn shape as they possibly can. Hell even after sex, a good tug and a pull won't hurt.

    This lady is obviously mentally ill.

    Just by reading a single paragraph I can analyze this.

    My advice? Let the kid jerk himself the fuck off til he's blue in the face. Bustin a nut never hurt anybody.
     
  4. The first line of my post says where I found it.
     
  5. That explains a lot. fuckn bitch. She shouldnt have kids in the fuckn first place.
     
  6. i hate women like her damn over thinkin everything.... over exaggerating.... dumb somtimes... just need to stuff a tampon up that shit.... (notice that i said dumb women... meaning her... no offense to the women on this site)... other than that i love women
     
  7. this bitch is on pussy power crack
     
  8. yeah, what?



    crazy
     
  9. oh please bitch STFU that poor kid jsut wants to wack it dear lord I remember when I was 14 shitttt
     
  10. Someone needs to kill this cunt.

    C an't
    U nderstand
    N ormal
    T hinking.

    It's just sex. When my mom caught me with porn she grounded me for 4 months and forced me to read C.S. Lewis(what a shitty author).

    Worst days of my life, when I was young I hate habanero chips and then touched me cock, this proceeded to make me get near crying from the burning pain in my red hot cock, that day was was better then having to read C.S. Lewis.

    Fuck C.S Lewis as well as this dumb cunt who doesn't understand the meaning of equality. WAKE UP FROM THE FUCKING MATRIX, this movement was made to destroy the family unit so the government could seize this chaotic problem with solutions that involve destruction of your civil liberties. Don't get me wrong I'm all for women being equal.

    She just needs a good fuck.
     
  11. that's a stupid fucking bitch...I promise you she's clinically fucking wack.
     
  12. Everything in moderation. Including radical feminism.
     
  13. prolley HER Mom shoulda had that abortion:devious::devious:
     
  14. Jesus. Here's a suggestion: If you're a raging feminist DON'T have kids, because if you end up with 3 boys in the house you will be fucked.
     
  15. That woman makes me yearn for the day when my "re-education" camps are up and running. :p ;)
     
  16. WoW......... umm.....

    Check please.... This date is over.
     
  17. can u say bad parent
     
  18. Lol, you post on teh vesti?

    Great place, great place.
     
  19. Haha, so it's not only if you smoke weed you're a criminal, now if you look at porn or like women you are also looked down upon by society?:D:mad::smoking:
     

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