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  1. The top 40 ways men fail in bed... take notes, all you Casanovas!

    1. NOT KISSING FIRST. Avoiding her lips and diving straight for the erogenous zones makes her feel like you\'re paying by the hour and trying to get your money\'s worth by cutting out nonessentials. A properly passionate kiss is the ultimate form of foreplay.

    2. BLOWING TOO HARD IN HER EAR. Admit it, some kid at school told you girls love this. Well, there\'s a difference between being erotic and blowing as if you\'re trying to extinguish the candles on your 50th birthday cake. That hurts.

    3. NOT SHAVING. You often forget you have a porcupine strapped to your chin which you rake repeatedly across your partner\'s face and thighs. When she turns her head from side to side, it\'s not passion, it\'s avoidance.

    4. SQUEEZING HER BREAST. Most men act like a housewife testing a melon for ripeness when they get their hand on a pair. Stroke, caress, and smooth them.

    5. BITING HER NIPPLES. Why do men fasten onto a woman\'s nipples, then clamp down like they\'re trying to deflate her body via her breasts? Nipples are highly sensitive. They can\'t stand up to chewing. Lick and suck them gently. Flicking your tongue across them is good. Pretending they\'re a doggie toy isn\'t.

    6. TWIDDLING HER NIPPLES. Stop doing that thing where you twiddle the nipples between finger and thumb like you\'re trying to find a radio station in a hilly area. Focus on the whole breasts, not just the exclamation points.

    7. IGNORING THE OTHER PARTS OF HER BODY. A woman is not a highway with just three turnoffs: Breastville East and West, and the Midtown Tunnel. There are vast areas of her body which you\'ve ignored far too often as you go bombing straight into downtown Vagina. So start paying them some attention.

    8. GETTING THE HAND TRAPPED. Poor manual dexterity in the underskirt region can result in tangled fingers and underpants. If you\'re going to be that aggressive, just ask her to take the damn things off.

    9. LEAVING HER A LITTLE PRESENT. Condom disposal is the man\'s responsibility. You wore it, you store it.

    10. ATTACKING THE CLITORIS. Direct pressure is very unpleasant, so gently rotate your fingers along side of the clitoris.

    11. STOPPING FOR A BREAK. Women, unlike men, don\'t pick up where they left off. If you stop, they plummet back to square one very fast. If you can tell she\'s not there, keep going at all costs, numb jaw or not.

    12. UNDRESSING HER AWKWARDLY. Women hate looking stupid, but stupid she will look when naked at the waist with a sweater stuck over her head. Unwrap her like an elegant present, not a kid\'s toy.

    13. GIVING HER A WEDGIE DURING FOREPLAY. Stroking her gently through her panties can be very sexy. Pulling the material up between her thighs and yanking it back and forth is not.

    14. BEING OBSESSED WITH THE VAGINA. Although most men can find the clitoris without maps, they still believe that the vagina is where it\'s all at. No sooner is your hand down there than you\'re trying to stuff stolen banknotes up a chimney. This is okay in principle, but if you\'re not careful, it can hurt - so don\'t get carried away. It\'s best to pay more attention to her clitoris and the exterior of her vagina at first, then gently slip a finger inside her and see if she likes it.

    15. MASSAGING TOO ROUGHLY. You\'re attempting to give her a sensual, relaxing massage to get her in the mood. Hands and fingertips are okay; elbows and knees are not.

    16. UNDRESSING PREMATURELY. Don\'t force the issue by stripping before she\'s at least made some move toward getting your stuff off, even if it\'s just undoing a couple of buttons.

    17. TAKING YOUR PANTS OFF FIRST. A man in socks and underpants is a at his worst. Lose the socks first.

    18. GOING TOO FAST. When you get to the penis-in-vagina situation, the worst thing you can do is pump away like an industrial power tool -she\'ll soon feel like an assembly-line worker made obsolete by your technology. Build up slowly, with clean, straight, regular thrusts.

    19. GOING TOO HARD. If you bash your great triangular hip bones into her thigh or stomach, the pain is equal to two weeks of horseback riding concentrated into a few seconds.

    20. COMING TOO SOON. Every man\'s fear. With reason. If you shoot before you see the whites of her eyes, make sure you have a backup plan to ensure her pleasure too.

    21. NOT COMING SOON ENOUGH. It may appear to you that humping for an hour without climaxing is the mark of a sex god, but to her it\'s more likely the mark of a numb vagina. At least buy some intriguing wall hangings, so she has something to hold her interest while you\'re playing Marathon Man.

    22. ASKING IF SHE HAS COME. You really ought to be able to tell. Most women make noise. But if you really don\'t know, don\'t ask.

    23. PERFORMING ORAL SEX TOO GENTLY. Don\'t act like a giant cat at a saucer of milk. Get your whole mouth down there, and concentrate on gently rotating or flicking your tongue on her clitoris.

    24. NUDGING HER HEAD DOWN. Men persist in doing this until she\'s eyeball-to-penis, hoping that it will lead very swiftly to mouth-to-penis. All women hate this. It\'s about three steps from being dragged to a cave by their hair. If you want her to use her mouth, use yours; try talking seductively to her.

    25. NOT WARNING HER BEFORE YOU CLIMAX. Sperm tastes like sea water mixed with egg white. Not everybody likes it. When she\'s performing oral sex, warn her before you come so she can do what\'s necessary.

    26. MOVING AROUND DURING FELLATIO. Don\'t thrust. She\'ll do all the moving during fellatio. You just lie there. And don\'t grab her head.

    27. TAKING ETIQUETTE ADVICE FROM PORN MOVIES. In X-rated movies, women seem to love it when men ejaculate over them. In real life, it just means more laundry to do.

    28. MAKING HER RIDE ON TOP FOR AGES. Asking her to be on top is fine. Lying there grunting while she does all the hard work is not. Caress her gently, so that she doesn\'t feel quite so much like the captain of a schooner. And let her have a rest.

    29. ATTEMPTING ANAL SEX AND PRETENDING IT WAS AN ACCIDENT. This is how men earn a reputation for not being able to follow directions. If you want to put it there, ask her first. And don\'t think that being drunk is an excuse.

    30. TAKING PICTURES. When a man says, \"Can I take a photo of you?\" she\'ll hear the words \"__to show my buddies.\" At least let her have custody of them.

    31. NOT BEING IMAGINATIVE ENOUGH. Imagination is anything from drawing patterns on her back to pouring honey on her and licking it off. Fruit, vegetables, ice and feathers are all handy props; hot candle wax and permanent dye are a no no.

    32. SLAPPING YOUR STOMACH AGAINST HERS. There is no less erotic noise. It\'s as sexy as a belching contest.

    33. ARRANGING HER IN STUPID POSES. If she wants to do advanced yoga in bed, fine, but unless she\'s a Romanian gymnast, don\'t get too ambitious. Ask yourself if you want a sexual partner with snapped hamstrings.

    34. LOOKING FOR HER PROSTATE. Read this carefully: Anal stimulation feels good for men because they have a prostate. Women don\'t.

    35. GIVING LOVE BITES. It is highly erotic to exert some gentle suction on the sides of the neck, if you do it carefully. No woman wants to have to wear turtlenecks and jaunty scarves for weeks on end.

    36. BARKING INSTRUCTIONS. Don\'t shout encouragement like a coach with a megaphone. It\'s not a big turn-on.

    37. TALKING DIRTY. It makes you sound like a lonely magazine editor calling a 1-900 line. If she likes nasty talk, she\'ll let you know.

    38. NOT CARING WHETHER SHE COMES. You have to finish the job. Keep on trying until you get it right, and she might even do the same for you.

    39. SQUASHING HER. Men generally weigh more than women, so if you lie on her a bit too heavily, she will turn blue.

    40. THANKING HER. Never thank a woman for having sex with you. Your bedroom is not a soup kitchen.


  2. DAMN we don\'t do anything right, do we?
  3. i\'s just tryin to help
    *is soooo very innocent*

  4. Just trying to help. Hahahaha

    I always let her come first.

    I always make sure she gets every drop.

    I always read the city forums while she is busy.

    I always let her know I just seen Highya so she\'ll be ready for the big l...

    I always let her now what I expect her to do!

    No need for a list of fourty things...

    True love is the swallow!
  5. Damn! That WAS 40.........just realized that!
    Seems to me like rules written by a chic just starting out!
    Rule #1 I strongly agree with. Lots-O-smoochin, always a good thing!!
  6. I always let her come first.

    as any good boy should.

    I always make sure she gets every drop.

    how very kind of you ;)

    I always read the city forums while she is busy.

    dont we all

    I always let her know I just seen Highya so she\'ll be ready for the big l...

    lmao now that one was funny

    I always let her now what I expect her to do!


    No need for a list of fourty things...

    you know youve f\'ed up a couple of em a time or two :D

    True love is the swallow! :D

  7. Looks like we are on the same page!

    I know I screw up a time or two. I have always been let know when that happens!
  8. i tought a couple of those were too funny....
    my man thanks me verytime, an i always think,.eh?
    wouldnt care if he left $$$ under the pillow when he left either.
    acourse were on the same page

  9. You mean he doesn\'t leave that little something under the pillow for a job well done?

    thats just not right........

    Always tip that sweet girl.. Keeps her sweet.. Ya know?
  10. the Breastville East, over to the West side, to the Midtown Tunnel, is the way Ive always went, its much nicer scenery!! :p
  11. OH JESUS.

    I knew my ex BOY friend was for real, and I wasnt THAT drunk to realize....!!!!

    29. ATTEMPTING ANAL SEX AND PRETENDING IT WAS AN ACCIDENT. This is how men earn a reputation for not being able to follow directions. If you want to put it there, ask her first. And don\'t think that being drunk is an excuse.

    HAHAHA! oooooh god...
  12. 29. ATTEMPTING ANAL SEX AND PRETENDING IT WAS AN ACCIDENT. This is how men earn a reputation for not being able to follow directions. If you want to put it there, ask her first. And don\'t think that being drunk is an excuse.

  13. Anal sex is otta the question! I don\'t think it would be worth the trouble!
  14. yeah it\'s kinda shit! out....Sid

  15. I agree. A shitty experience it would be!
  16.\'s what I think...

    I agree with these:

    20. COMING TOO SOON. (but if you can go again then life is back to good)

    These are ones for comments:


    I love to be bitten...I prefer no marks on my neck but the rest of me is fair game.


    This one leaves time for teasing. If they stop for a break...tease them until they can\'t stand that break any longer.


    I get the point, a man should be able to tell but if there are any doubts then he had better ask or I\'m kicking his ass if I\'m left hanging. LOL!


    I kind of dig this one!


    If I have an amazing O, he\'s getting a thank you and an invitation for more dirty wild sex!!! So, I don\'t mind a thank makes me know I made him a happy boy!

    That\'s all I NEED to say.
  17. Ok RMJL does that pertain to most women ya think?

    I would hope that all men at least TRY to care for their ladies. With out the ladies, most of us would be lost!
  18. Do my ideas on the Top 40 pertain to most women? I doubt it. I\'m not like other girls. My mind just doesn\'t work the same way as most womens do. I mean, I have friends who are girls, but my best friends are guys. I love all the girls here on the board but I just can\'t get into all that prissy, soft shit.

    When I said that I agreed with those that I listed...I meant that they were no-no\'s in my book, too.

    The others were my thoughts on them and things like #\'s 1, 27 and 28 don\'t really bother me and I\'ll know when 25 is going to happen so I really don\'t need a warning and it really wouldn\'t matter anyway.

    We all like it different in bed...or the kitchen, the shower, the balcony, the floor....well, you get the picture. We all have different tastes....LOL....take that one the way you want to!!!!
  19. Ok that one is done!

    I guess what I meant was.....
    Do most women want to be the soft perishable person or do they just want to have sex for to be enjoying sex.

    I\'ve known some women who want the sex. they are ready for it and love it.

    I have also known some that were like.. sex is messy and something that should only be done one way and not alot of fun just the togetherness of two people.

    ^^did that make sense^^?
  20. sex IS


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