Ok there is this girl i will call her J. So we have been best friends, really good friends, since like junior year. I am a guy, of course, and her best best friend is a girl named A. Now those two are two of my best friends and shit and i am really attracted to J. We used to drink a lot together and hooked up twice in the summer. Now it wasn't like a planned before thing and it just happened two times. We haven't openly talked about it ever. To eachother atleast and yeah it ran it's course but i'm starting to like her.... ugh. Is it impossible to escape this friend-zone or what. Fuck my life
actions speak louder than words If you act like a friend you gonna get treated like a friend...so if you ask her something she'll give you a friendly response. If you act like her boyfriend, you should get treated like one...so if you ask her something, she'll give you the respone you want.
this is true with new girls, but once you're with a friend she'll treat pretty much the same, no advice now...too high...will post later
you say junior year but that doesnt say how long u been friends for, which factors into how i would react to the situation
Tell her that you love her like a sister and that you'd never hookup with her again. She'll jump at you like no other.
Awww dude i was in the same situation once and i got the fuck outta there couldnt take you pressure do what you want man just talk about it with us here on the city
Well, I have liked a girl which was a friend aswell. I came, I saw, I failed. one way or another.. Do not persue it, it Will fail. If u cant hold your urges, GO FOR IT, Follow your heart. But dont expect anything. Im sorry but i havent had the best expierences with it.. not that I care anymore now.
Hm..if she doesn't have a boyfriend, what's the deal? If you two hooked up in the past, I don't see an issue. Just ask her out on a date. If you're really best friends, it'll only be awkward for a few days if she says no. Heck, she might have wanted you to ask her out a long time ago.
