I cut up a sticky nug with these little scissors that are supposed to be for trimming your cats nails haha (never did that) Then I pick up the peices with a folded buisness card that some guy gave me and pour it in the bowl. I try not to touch it because they say you lose a small percent of thc on your fingers. I pack it down in a circular motion with my chapstick lid and it burns sooooooo smooth and slow in my pipe. Usually topped with kief.
Well sometimes I'll use my bro's grinder and a card to pack it but if that is unavailable, fingers always work
Grind it, open grinder, tilt to almost vertical at the edge of the bowl and gently tap, then pack it down a tad bit, and add some wax. My grinder is small, so it doesn't spill everywhere when I'm tapping it over the bowl, works well.