Do you want to eventually get married? I've been thinking a lot and this may sound a bit odd but I honestly have no desire to get married. I can't stand to be controlled in ANY way. If I want to sit around in my underwear, I do it. If I want to go out, I go out. I can't stand the thought of constantly answering to someone. Where are you going? When are you coming back? I don't want you doing that! Bah, I can live without another mother. Now I know there are many benefits to falling in love and finding that special someone to share your life with, but when I weigh out the advantages vs. the disadvantages I feel I'll be happier overall without being tied down. Relationships are great when things are going well, but everybody fights and usually it's over such stupid things. I can live without pathetic fights over small things like leaving the light on, dealing with in-laws, or sacrificing what I want to do just to make someone else happy. It's a bit selfish but I prefer to live for me and do what I want to do. Nothing can beat personal freedom, not even love. I'm probably the minority here but I'd like to hear your choice and why you'd prefer it. If you're already married just explain why you prefer it, or wish you never said I do. Oh if you're a girl just replace everything I said with everything that's wrong about sharing your life with a man.