There's a girl I like , and we've been on two dates. Instantly we clicked. We've made out at my place. How long should I wait to officially ask her out? I don't want to ask her out and be denied then have everything be awkward. I'd rather keep it in the casual zone its in now than ruin it by attempting to make it official. I don't care about labels or making it official or whatever.. only reason I want to make it official is so she doesn't (or is less likely to) hook up with other dudes when we're not together. It's been awhile since I've been in the dating game. I have mostly been having casual hookups for years. How long should I wait to officially ask her out? Is it just one of those things that you have to feel the timing for? Or is there a set amount of time/dates?