I really do not know what to do. I broke up my ex a little while ago, but throughout out the whole relationship I wanted her friend. My ex and I ended on very bad terms. Me and my ex friend never got along with each other. I could be in class while I was in a relationship she would say to another girl she don't see why her friend wanted me. For some odd reason the girl is starting to stay in the back of my mind. Every time I walk in the halls she is the only person I notice. I don't understand how I can go from hating her to now I get butterflies thinking about her. What should I do? What should I say to her?
Say how you feel without being scared of the outcome . Positive or negative , it'll eat you inside more wondering than it will taking action. Be confident and most of all , be honest.
You ain't never going to know until u try.. Worst thing is she says no and tells ur ex and they tell the entire school how much of a scum bag you are, haha just playing but yeah gotta be confident say that shit with ur chest (Kevin Hart voice) Sent from my SM-G925V using Grasscity Forum mobile app
I was thinking about that. Wouldn't it kind of seem weird if I did? I think she knows that I like her.
Yes, I wouldn't say shit. Your best bet is to try and hang out casually and escalate. It's super touchy though since she is a friend of your ex. Tread lightly my friend.
A lot could depend on what grade you are in (or if you know each other outside of school). If you're a Senior, there isn't much time left till school ends. If below that, then there is plenty of time left.
I would just try and flirt with her a bit, if she flirts back then ask her out if your still feeling it.
At lunch time grab her hand and take her somewhat decent for a nice meal together...dosnt have to mean anything or end with a kiss or anything....just lunch together.....casuel lunch dates open doors that might not other wise be open.
Just fucking go for it. What do you have to lose following the potential good end result of a curious hunch? jah!/*d$*
