Losing our house

Thats heavy stuff, man. my parents have lost 2 houses, so i do know what you are going through. Honestly, the only thing you can do is give her emotional support, and when it comes to the things that your rat step dad should take care of ( fixing stuff around the house, helping her move boxes, just generally anything that she needs taken care of ) be sure to lend a helping hand. sorry if this isnt helpful but sometimes theres just not much you can do.

 

Enter a sporting competition where the first prize is enough to buy your house back and make sure to win a girl off a total douche bag while you do it. If your not good enough to win the prize you can just get help from a gruff but loveable retired pro.

Seriously though cant she move in with you untill you find her an apartment nearby? or arent there any other family members she can live with untill its sorted?

 

Know what always helps me feel better? A bowl. Or two.

 

Damn that sucks man =[ my parents recently got a divorce aswell and we are still living in the same house. My mom is moving back to new york which makes me feel sad, i feel your pain man.

 

I agree with BaconDan - be supportive, help her pack and get ready for the move.

Actually, even though she is losing the house, really moving to a smaller place will be easier on her in the long run. Less money going out means she will not have to work as hard, less space means less house cleaning to do. Sort of when life gives you lemons make lemonade. With a smaller place, costing less she can save money as well. Not working as much can give her more time to spend with you and your sister, and her other friends.

Some moving tips - you can get smaller boxes at booze stores - smaller boxes are lighter to carry. When you pack, you can wrap breakables in clothing. Glasses and cups fit in socks.

 

Help her with whatever she needs help with, there's nothing else to do