Long Term Relationships - Yay or Nay?

Discussion in 'General' started by Heinous Anus, Jul 11, 2006.

  1. I've been going out with my girl for a little more than 3 years now. Everything's going great, no complaints at all.

    But, a lot of people have been telling me that I need to move on. That I'm still young and I'm just wasting time. I sure don't feel like I am though. My girl's like my best friend in some ways. Funny as hell, smokes weed, hot, just an all around perfect girl to be with for me.

    All of you seem pretty intelligent, so I just wanted to ask your opinions. Do you find long term relationship a waste of time or are just happy with that one girl or guy?
     
  2. If you're happy, then there is absolutley no question about it.

    Yay.
     
  3. If you're totally happy with her why change? Thats like breaking a RooR because you want to try out a PHX, Molino, whatever, you get the picture. Its a bad analogy, but the most suitable one I could think of.

    Edit - And I say breaking it because it would be hard to get things back together with her. Ahh, the pun.
     
  4. I say if ur really happy then stay with her. Why ruin something good for something u don't know will work. Don't loose what u already have. Thats just my opinion.
     
  5. Oh, I know all of that. I was just wondering your guys' opinions. Seems like stoners have more loyalty to their loved ones than the rest.

    All the others wanted me to sleep around on my chick. But, hell yea I'm totally happy.
     
  6. Yeah man Id say if your happy, and shes happy, why mess around? You obviously have a good relationship going that will hopefully last longer, and you obviously enjoy her, so I see no reason why you should look around at other girls, especially if it could ruin the "perfect" relationship you have now:)
     
  7. And by the way your friends are probably just telling you that you should move on because they are jealous!
     
  8. I am with my best friend... him and I have been through everything. We are constantly told that we are too young- but I honestly couldnt see my life without him by my side.

    He strengthens me where I need strengthening.. and vice versa.

    My mom always tells people... Who is she to say that we are not soul mates? If we are in love and young- then we are lucky. Many people do not find that in their lifetime.

    If you are happy.. then there is nothing wrong with a long term relationship.

    Believe you me.. TheColonel and I are perfect examples that true love can come at a young age.

    :D
     
  9. Awesome :)

    Thanks, that really does mean something to me. I feel the exact way with my girl. Instant, strong connection that hasn't faded yet. I mean, we're not obsessed with one another. We just like one another's company a lot. :)
     
  10. I know what you mean.. I love being around TheColonel. He brightens my day. People wonder how I spend so much time with him- but in reality I would rather spend my day with him than anyone else. Its an amazing feeling to have your best friend there... and that person be your companion and team member.

    Its a pretty damn good feeling. Dont give it up for any other reason but your own.. if its not working out in YOUR head. Friends influences dont mean much when it comes to your love life. Unless its something serious- like shes mean to them.. then listen. But if its just a jealous thing, which it sounds like, just brush it off.

    And its not like every relationship will be perfect ALL the time. You know that though, youve been together for 3 years. It gets rough- but how you move on from it and how you grow is a real measure of a true relationship.

    I personally support long term relationships.. obviously.

    He completes who I am.. Its wonderful to have someone to push me even further and help me suceed beyong what I expected.

    ...oops..just got too mushy.

    Ill push it over the top.. I love you TheColonel

    heh.:hello::p

    Plus he knows where to get good weed.... without him- id probably be dry all the time.. usefull to have around :)
     
  11. I vote YAY! :)

    If she accepts you for who you are and you accept her for who she is and you love each other unconditionally then keep the relationship going. It doesn't matter how old or young you are as long as your happy...and you seem happy! :D
     
  12. I'd get all mushy. But, I'm stoned. I tend to be introverted when I'm high. Oh well...I'm still looking for games.

    Oh, and I don't let my friends get to me. I was just wondering what all of you thought. :) Thanks.
     
  13. I'm telling you dude, Fireshark.

    It will consume your soul.
     
  14. long terms. it all depends on how strong your relatonship is..
     
  15. dude dont leave her man, i was thinking about dropping my highschool sweetheart cuz its been so long, but i realize how perfect she is and i would die if i let her get away.

    if things are going great, fuck what youre friends say...they arent gonna be with you as long as she might be.
     
  16. if your happy, and your gf is happy, then stay man
     
  17. Yeah, if what you have between your girlfriend and you makes you both happy, stay together. Dont let other people tell you that you cant feel love at a young age, if youre young.

    I know some people will not agree with my choice, but I gave up smoking herb for my girlfriend, she makes me so much more happy than weed ever did, and its a trade that I do not regret at all. I'm absolutely in love with her, and she feels that same way about me :D

    Whatever makes you the most happy, is what I always say
     


  18. no offense but for you to even post this question on the internet means that your not ready to move on...you should listen to the voice inside you...if your having second thoughts thats usually a bad sign
     
  19. dude, dont listen to those jerks telling you to move on, its YOUR girl, i bet you love her to death and would do anything for her, GOD I NEED A NEW GF!!!, haha thats besides the point. lol

    but moving on, yes you should stay with her, she sounds awesome and why end something that could last a lifetime, with happyness

    and she blazes.......no complaints on this end.
     
  20. Yea as everyone else said if you're happy then don't ruin it. Good luck to the both of you
     

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