life is so fucking pointless

Discussion in 'General' started by darksmoker, Jun 4, 2012.

  1. and meaningless. i just lost a very, very good friend today in a motorcycle accident and it's hit me very hard. his whole life wasted. going to school and working a stupid job. he didn't even get to live life. it was fucking wasted on homework and serving a bunch of fatasses double cheeseburgers. its not right. this shit can happen to anyone...you seriously never never know what might happen...i was just talking to him yesterday about a car event he went to, everything was normal, he was happy, had a good time, i was too, bam less than 24 hours later he's fucking gone forever. i dont fuckin get it.

    theres now a news article on it...
    http://www.app.com/article/20120603...ngton-County-man?odyssey=mod|newswell|text||p
     
  2. My condolences. But you have to keep on keeping on for your friend man. Live the life he never got the chance to.
     
  3. #3 Blaze, Jun 4, 2012
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    "Well, see, that's my whole point. I mean you could've been born a single cell organism on the planet Zortex. In fact, given the odds, it's probably more likely, but you weren't. You we're born a human being. And not just any human being in the history of human beings, but a human being that gets to be alive today. That gets to listen to all kinds of music, that gets to eat food from every culture, that gets to download porn off the internet. So really, you have everything to live for."

    - C.B

    My condolences man, I have lost many friends in this life. But I know that the only thing I can do is accept it and move on. The memories I shared with them will never die.
     
  4. my condolences man... i know how it is.. i've felt similar thoughts recently. you just gotta hold on to what you love man. it's tough sometimes.
     
  5. I'm deeply sorry about your loss. I've lost two friends as well.

    Maybe you should take this as an important message to you, though. Perhaps as an event that may push you to live in a better, and different way.

    Aside from your friends job, and everything, maybe he did live a happy life..inside.

    I know it's hard for me to say something that will make you feel better, it takes time with these kinds of things... but I know you will be okay. Be thankful for the memories and try to think of the happy times.


    Best wishes to you.
     
  6. i cannot get over this one. i got drunk with and toked with this guy constantly. he was literally one of my best friends. the tears havent left my eyes for the past 4 hours, when i got the text...i dunno guys..i've never lost anyone i've been this close to, so sorry if it seems like i'm being a baby or whatever..i just CANT fucking believe it.
     
  7. Darksmoker, it is okay to grieve man. When I lost my best friend I cried for a week straight. The loss of a friend or family member is the most devastating thing I have ever felt.
     

  8. I wish I could give you a hug. Try to be strong. The physical realm, well let's just say it isn't our only world.

    <3
     
  9. Sorry about your loss man, I too have lost several very close friends. I just have to think about it like they are out of all the BS and pain we, that are left living, have to endure...be there for his family...
     
  10. Sorry to hear that bro. But, "Life is temporary but the soul is eternal" he still lives on my friend.
     
  11. im so sorry that something like that happened. please stay strong. life is like that. death is inevitable, but life is not pointless. please remember that life is fragile, and that all we can ever fucking do is live in the now. it's easier said than done, though. if you ever need anyone to talk to, I'm here.
     
  12. I know it sucks losing someone you were close to like that man so my condolences, im sorry for your loss bro
     
  13. I'm so sorry man.

    I lost my dad in a motorcycle accident when I was fifteen..

    And he got hit by a guy blindly backing onto a main street...

    Shit sucks. Grieve. But understand life continues. And you have to continue with it.
     
  14. [quote name='"Jennuine"']

    I wish I could give you a hug. Try to be strong. The physical realm, well let's just say it isn't our only world.

    <3[/quote]

    I love this, I love that you said this
     
  15. Real sorry for your loss man..

    You think his whole life was wasted? That can't be true—look at the impact he had on you, look at his impact on others. People certainly don't live forever, but their ideas and beliefs, their impact, is what truly lasts forever.
     
  16. Dude, I'm so sorry man. I hope the pain soon subsides and you can remember the good times with a smile. Its hard, I know, I'm still workin at it... Its something I wish no one had to experience.
    If you ever need to talk or anything bro, Just holller.
     

  17. Thanks, love. :)
     
  18. the only guarantee in life is death, man. accept that. you knew him, you have a years full of memories to remember him by. keep those close to you, and smile on the good times. dwelling on his death will only hurt man... trust me, i've been a part of this all too often.

    i've lost three friends in car accidents, and my father (not to an accident). i get really sad, but then i think about all of the good, wonderful times and smile. it helps dude.

    stay strong man, i'll hug my laptop riiiightttt..... now :)
     
  19. Thats very very sad almost makes me tear up just feeling the pain for his family and friends....
     

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