All life is sex. Sex is the driving force behind the entire universe, and in order to sustain itself the Universe is constantly engaged in the sexual act. All space and all time, then, is part of an eternal cosmic act of sex. Much of it is foreplay. Building attraction. Think of it as you having a divine lover, who in one way is you and in another way is your perfect match. SHe is your perfectly compatible mental and sexual partner. You are perfect to hir perceptions, and SHe is perfect to your perceptions. Everything you do makes you more attractive to hir, makes hir want you more. Everything that occurs in your life makes your highest self better understand hir, and therefore increases your attraction to hir and further realize hir perfection. SHe is always present, your perfect counterpart, making hirself more and more attractive to you, showing you more and more hir perfection, according to your own perceptions. All the while, the same thing is happening in the reverse, where you become more and more attractive and perfect to hir. In some ways, much of life is like this relationship being expressed through teasing, where you are not explicitly fufilled and yet this force is still at work, â€œteasingâ€ you so as to build excitement. Consider this from the more physical angle, as well. Sexual pleasure is a neural response. It is simply a particular sensation of neurons being energetically stimulated. All perception is the result of neural responses. With a cultivation of the right perspective, you can come to perceive all physical sensation as sexual pleasure. When we consider the essentially proven holographic nature of the mind/brain/nervous system, in which every part contains within itself the information of the whole, it becomes clear how the nervous system in its totality can be trained to understand all stimulation as sexual pleasure. The actual physical act of sex, then, becomes an intensified act of an ongoing sex act. Through training yourself to perceive reality in this way, life itself of course becomes more and more pleasurable, but you become much more sensitive sexually as well, and so the pleasure derived from the physical act will also skyrocket.