so just feeling a little annoyed right now and wanted to see if anyone else goes through or has gone through anything like this. Iv got a person who for all intensive purposes should be really close to me. I should be able to trust this guy but I do not. Every time we hang out I am the one who has to foot the bill. like we go to get munchies and I shit you not every single time he either forgets his wallet or the card gets denied for some reason. every time this happens he is just like oh hey can you get this ill get you back, but when I ask for him to repay me or trade anything he acts like I am being a Nazi by asking for repayment. He is usually only over at my house when he is out of weed also. some times he will have a little on him but since I just harvested my plants he acts like I need to be supporting his habits. he even just blatantly asks for weed every single time he leaves my house. like oh hey btw can I get a couple grams from you? the first time I was like sure man no problem and gave him a gram. It's even to the point where whole joints go missing. like everything is just a huge coincidence with this dude. I am pretty sure he is just straight out stealing from my stash. I made sure to put everything away a couple nights ago and he was some how able to pull out a Oz I had stashed. he had it hiding under the sleeping bag I had set out for him. when I asked how it got there he was just like why were you checking my area? trying to just laugh it off. even tonight he said he was leaving but he got up and walked to where I had some bud stashed. I quietly walked behind him and was just watching. he said he just wanted to look at it but he was looking very annoyed that I was watching him. I shit you not we stood there for 10 minutes while he just look at me then at the bud. I was eventually just like well I need to go to the store so its time to leave bro. he responded by asking for some weed. to which I said no, I only have so much and I cant get more until next harvest.
He is using you, need to kick him to the curb via the easy way or hard way. No reason for you to support him just because you are more prepared then he is. Good luck.
have him come over, ask him if he has any weed and he'll probably say no im guessing, and then go out to lunch with him order whatever the hell you want, in the middle of the meal go to the bathroom, then get the fuck out of there, go home, and roll a fat blunt up and then get a new friend. It's that simple, no need for people like that in your life.
problem being he is my brother... or at least our parents are married. never really hung out with him until a couple weeks ago and that's why I say I should be able to trust this dude.. I am about 8 years older than he is. after writing everything down I know for sure he is. this isn't even the tip of it but its hard to tell if someone is doing this right from the start. just pisses me off.
Get a safe and hide your weed/money in there and tell him to get a job you can't be paying for all his food and supplying him with free weed forever Sent from my iPhone using Grasscity Forum
He is your step brother? Why not tell his parent what is going on...think it through, might not be the greatest idea.
I really just wanted to see if anyone else has gone through anything like this.... I guess just something to relate with. I am just really pissed because I see this guy as my brother. he see's me as the son of the guy who is fucking his mom.
This guy has already used up his 3 strikes..by the way it sounds, he seems to be working on strike 20-something by now. What a shady character..definitely wouldn't trust him around any of my shit either.
fuck that... stealing from my stash? 8 years younger? not even blood related? you must be the gentle type.
Buy a safe, I do not think a "talk" will do much good with someone like him. I think he will just get a bit angry as it seems he doesn't seem to have much of a conscience. Damn man he tried to steal an ounce and you caught him straight up, why are you still being nice to him? If you are going to have any talk with him make it short and sweet and tell him he can either stop stealing and eyeing your shit, and things will be fine and family-like. Or he can not get it and keep being shady, and not come around anymore.
I hope you have your place secured well. If you cut off your brother, be ready for 2 things: 1. He will sneak in and get your stash. 2. He will tell your father what you are doing or attempt to blackmail you about informing your father. If he does either you should kick his arse or sell him on ebay. For Sale - Practically perfect young man that will answer to the following names: Moe Lawn Rayk Leevz Kleen D. Gutterz I'm pretty sure that I'm just kidding about selling him.
pretty sure we all treat those who we consider family with exceptions. I know I have been in slight denial about it. only person I have let in my life In a while is blatantly ripping me off.... just thought I could trust him. I thought it was just my medical predisposition working against me
Yeah dude it's a shame really. Being a genuine/nice person is so hard to come by nowadays, Isn't it great that we're the ones that have to be taken advantage of? (Gc is the most chilled and mellowed out place I've ventured) with people like this that DO manage to loophole around your kindness, do yourself a favor + 1, kick him in the nuts and to the curb, and all of that wonderful herb YOU grew with YOUR work/effort that is deserved not to be enjoyed by peasants who fuck up all the time, but by cool people like YOU.
wow... kid's lucky to have a big bro like you. think of it as discipline or tough love. or just let him keep running over you.
yeah man its funny. I have dealt with people like this before and they always show up banging on the door if you don't answer the phone. such a stupid situation! it's like if someone knows you just got paid and they keep asking for cash. I feel it is the same way! I had spent about 1k on growing stuff and spent the time, effort, security, and peace of mind to grow this for my self. this kid comes along and thinks he is entitled because it appears my cup is running over. what really disappoints me is I have gone to great lengths not to let him see the werewolf I have inside me. I wanted to be the model big brother. there has been a couple parties I have pulled his ass from because I knew shit was going down. but now here we are..... he knows what I am and I know he is able to see it. he has even commented on it a few times. I guess he took that exception to heart and thought he was infallible. \nat this point I wonder if there is anyone I can trust.....
My family has been like that my whole life..I gotta tell them to fuck off a lot family or not..I say ok a lot of the time too but you cant let other peoples bullshit interfere with your life
so the real question is what do you do when you no longer have a single person in life you can trust.... am I just a means to a end? my answer is keep on walking. its all I have ever done. no one will ever understand what I have gone though. no one can ever feel what I have felt. yet here I am.... one foot in front of the other. be nice and be a normal person.
I had a lot of shady "friends' growing up that I didnt trust but a few were cool and I trust maybe 2 people now and they're not even family...I guess it comes down to do you want to have half ass friends/ family and accept they suck or will they push you so far you eventually stop talking to them..but yea just gotta take it a day at a time and hope you meet some cool people eventually
