Do you kiss on the first date? Is it a turn off if a man doesnt kiss you on the 1st or 2nd date or initial meeting...because he is too nervous or scared?
I think one has to be conscious about various signs when on a first date. On me and my fiance's first date, we went to a hookah bar and we were having a pleasant (albeit shy) conversation. Next thing I know, we're sharing a gentle kiss. Personally I'm okay with anything on a first date so long as the chemistry is right. Be attentive to body language, vibes, and energy. Chances are, they really do want to kiss you, but aren't sure how to communicate it in more verbal ways. So be brave; instigate it first, and that'll take care of all his anxiety once he gets it out of his system.
I'll try not to..even if things seem right like the person above me said. I do that because i like to draw everything out as long as possible for the sake of a relationship. The faster you move, the more trapped a person may feel. But maybe if it was a great night, at the end of a date or maybe if you're caught in the moment. Give her a long good soft kiss. But after that i'd keep it really low key, and don't be hanging all over them if you get a kiss. Girls don't like that, and just because you got a kiss once doesn't mean she'll give you one again. Don't assume you can be all over a girl because you had been before, just always be a gentleman.
if things are going well then i am all for a kiss on the first date. if things arent going well or if you aren't sure, then refrain. i dont think the first date is too soon or anything. after all, it's just a kiss.
