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just found out my friend is a crossdresser :S

Discussion in 'Real Life Stories' started by alexa123, Jan 27, 2014.

  1. So yeah, as the title says I recently discovered through a different mutual friend, that my friend is a cross-dresser. (Is there a more pc term for this?)
    Anyway's apparently I'm one of a very few people who actually know about this, and I also happen to know this guy is very sensitive about it...
    Do you guys think I should bring it up with him, as a show of support?
    And also wtf would you say in this situation?
     
    Gonna get some trolly answers to this thread I reckon..

     
  2. #2 snoopdog6502, Jan 27, 2014
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    Its the year 2014. My thoughts in it is it's no big deal.
     
    I would let him keep it private till he brings it up.
     
  3. howd you find out lol?


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  4. yea don't bring it up till he does


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    Me and the mutual friend got absolutely hammered the other night and he told me lol
     
     
    Same, but I live in a rural area where people are dicks if you're a bit different , and I just wanted to show him I care really
     
  6. #6 morange, Jan 27, 2014
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    sounds like he wasn't bothering you before you found out. Live and let live.
     
  7. go up to him and say"yoo I heard you a cross dresser hows that going for you?" and thats itSent from my SPH-L720 using Grasscity Forum mobile app
     
  8. well shit just get super drunk again and talk about it with him. tread lightly tho because he might be embarrassed but thats where the alcohol comes in, breaks down barriers.


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  9. yea i dont see a reason to bring it up, for a pc term you can say he wears drag
     
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    he's a pretty good friend of mine, never heard anything bad about him, like ever. 
    Just wanted to find a sensitive way of telling that I'm here for him really
     
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    It was a different friend that told me about the whole cross dressing thing, pretty sure the dude himself doesn't know I know. Plus this guy doesn't drink, or smoke weed
     
  12. i wouldn't bring it up unless he does then


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  13. #13 alexa123, Jan 27, 2014
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    thanks, probably would be pretty uncomfortable to talk about something like this, especially if it was coming from someone that you didnt even know knew
     
  14. I say bring it up sometime I used to crossdress. Would've loved to have a nonjudgemental person to talk to. If you're a good listener then bring it up
     
  15. Better not to approach the subject. He may feel betrayed that the other friend talked. :smoke:
     
  16. This ^.  And if he does bring it up, please be accepting and respectful
     
  17. Yea, don't bring it up unless he tells you. Your other friend told you whilst in a drunken state, so maybe it slipped out. Just let him do his thing, when the time comes, he'll tell you.

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  18. #18 alexa123, Jan 28, 2014
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    thanks for the advice guys.
    I'm gonna stay quiet, should be just easier, and less uncomfortable for him.
     
  19. Drop him a 20 on the table and say put on your sturdiest dress because im gonna wreck you tonight.

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  20. Just be like

    Dude it's cool, when I was a kid I'd put on my mom's shoes and lick the sole.

    Really?

    Hell no bro, you 're fucked up stop that shit before you become a child rapist
     

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