Just Been Banned From Reefer

Tell her she has to respect that marijuana is apart of you.

 

Well said brothern

 

I'd say my best advise it to sit her down and talk with her about it. Tell her how you fell...and explain the tolerance things and tell her that your feelings are still strong about Ganj. And if she can't respect that then maybe you need to talk deeper than that.

 

maybe you both should take a little break. and yea talk to her about it and just dont have her smoke so much next time.

 

Just explain to her rationally that she's got a low tolerance, and that she doesn't have to smoke if she doesn't want to. Then ask her why you can't smoke anymore.

 

I've come to realize that rationalizing with girls that are like that doesn't work sometimes. And in the end sacrificing who you are for somebody else isn't worth it. If they can't accept you for who you are and what you do, then it's not meant to be. Everyone has to give their partner the freedom of life in certain aspects, it just comes with the territory.

 

Well said, especially that first line, soooo true. Just from reading the post,
this sounds like a girl that you arent going to be able to rationalize with.

One more thing, dont let her tell you what you can and cannot do because
you'll grow up to be a big pussy. (its happening to someone in my family right now)

 

never stop smoking unless thats what you wanna do don't sacrifice who you are just cause of a chick oh yeah tell her not to smoke so much thats alot since she doesn't smoke very much along with it being Dank

 

Ask her why it was okay for you to smoke when she did. Now it's not okay for you to smoke just because she had a bad experiance? Sounds like she's trying to controll you and have her do what she is doing. Tell her that you do not want to live her life and you wanna live your own, and that includes making your own decisions about what you do. Just try and talk her back into it and explain that if shes gonna be constantly paranoid then when she smoke thats all she will be.

 

are you still allowed to play with your dollies, Alice?

 

You need to set that broad straight, sounds like she thinks she can Betty Crocker your ass, whip you up a lil bit and make a sweetboy cake outta ya.

She should respect and love you for who you are, not who she can change you into.

 

First off, she sounds weird to me... who the hell freaks out from smoking bud? Even dank, a body high isn't that scary.

Second, tell her she was "freaking out" because she has a low tolerance level. Tell her not to smoke as much, if she does again. You can't let someone else's experience affect your own, and conversely you cannot let your experience affect someone else's. Tell her you don't have any problem with smoking... and that you rather like it.

Maybe you're not gonna break up with her, but if she'd break up with you for something as trivial as smoking in your free time, then it's just not meant to be. If she doesn't want you to smoke around her; that's fine, you should respect that. But on your own time (unless you're one of those dudes that get a girl and lose all their alone time/time with guy friends,) you can do what you want... it'll give you time to hang out with your friends, worked for a friend of mine who's girl didn't smoke. If she likes you enough, she'll give you your space and let you do want you want in that space.

If not, she's a psycho-bitch.

 

bad trip on weed. hahahahhaha

 

so your girl doesn't want to smoke anymore because she got too high, and now you're never allowed to toke again? that's boo boo. like homeboy said, i'd ask her why it was okay when she enjoyed it, but now that she doesn't you're not allowed. that doesn't make much sense. support her decision to not smoke, but she's gotta realize that whether or not you smoke has to be on you. if she can make that decision for you, then get ready to not be allowed to eat fried foods or pastrami (i love pastrami) next time she wants to drop a couple pounds before bikini season. if it starts with the green, where does it stop?

::edit:: I just read your post. if she calls you an addict, then tell her you won't smoke for a month to prove it. then don't smoke for a month. tell her she can pick up one of those home DT's at the end of the month if she wants. you don't NEED weed, you like it. Just like i don't NEED to watch 24 every week, but i enjoy it. i don't see any reason why a compromise can't be reached, unless she blows the issue way out of proportion and makes it a relationship-defining issue. Tell her you love her, and you are willing to quit for her if you have to, but in order for it to stick, you've gotta be ready. i have a feeling you'll regret it if you quit before you're ready, especially if, God forbid, it doesn't work out. I've got a buddy who changed his whole life for a girl he was with for 7 years, married, and has now divorced. as soon as that divorce was final, kid went fuckin nuts for about 6 months, to the point where there were actually a couple times that i said, "damn, kid should slow down a bit" and i go pretty hard. It was because he realized how much he'd changed for the girl, and he didn't really like the guy he'd become, which makes sense, cause he was a puppy when they were together. just my 2 cents.

 

betta delete your history


Goodluck on talking her out of it?

 

aahahahah woman trying to manipulate you, and you're letting her.

no bitch gives me a fucking ultimatum about shit like that.

maybe I'm just spoiled because my girl almost smokes as much as I do.

 

Damn dude, thats gay. How long you been together? I say dump her, aint no women comin between me and my weed. Mary Jane was my first love and shell be my last. Besides having a girlfriend is overrated, all you need is a good friend thats a girl and lets you get some action on the side...and no offence but it sounds like your whipped.



Budzilla420

 

Now that you quoted him, he can't erase you quoting him saying it.