I use winamp. I have 12,000 plus songs on my external drive, and love the "J" feature that allows me to type in whatever song I want to hear, and it jumps right to it. I used ITunes one time to try and print a list of all my songs... and it totally re-arranged my whole cd collection. Instead of having the folders like "Artist - CD Name" it arranged the folders all by the artists! It took me 6 months to switch it all back like I originally had it... so you can imagine how pissed off I was, and why I would never use ITunes again, ever.
Same. Everything else annoys me. (except for FoxyTunes, I use that a lot. But it's just an extension for Firefox that works with Winamp, so it's kinda half using Winamp anyway.)
wmp, i dont like itunes interface, and the ipod can kiss my ass . but out side of the two choices, id have to say caffieneMP.