It's never about being right or the best out of the start it's not about what we do that keeps us from drifting apart; we're never really separated, not even a bit. it's just that it makes us feel important when that's the way we look at it that's why we hide our selves away and think that we're smart we study all the books and only show up for the best part but there is no shame in seeing someone else at their worst it's just an opportunity to drop the boundary's that hurt to let them know it's no big deal we all have things that are difficult for us to let heal.