I just started a new job, there is a girl in my training class and we kinda clicked from the first moment, she turned out to be cool as hell, not to mention a bit of a knock out. I was laying out a little charm, only to find out she had a boyfriend. I figure whatever atleast we can kick it at work and smoke or something. Today comes around, we were on hour lunch break at work, her dude came to see her and was being an asshat and she tried to stand up for herself, and he flipped and told her to pack her shit. She came to me crying and asked if I could help get her stuff to her dads house cause she doesn't have a car. So I did that, we chilled at my house and smoked with a mutual friend, had a pretty good time. She said "There aren't many people like you around here" and kept giving me these looks like she was digging me. Our friend was noticing aswell. I took her home and she went to hug me and squeezed me real hard and just held me. I'm gonna have to pick her up for work and take her home, I just got out of a long relationship and now it seems I'm going right back into one, not saying I'm not into her, just not what I had planned. Oh, and the worst part. She has a 9 month old baby, he was a cute and cool kid but also...not what I had planned. I'm not trying to rush anything but I doubt I could say no to a woman of this caliber. Here I go again
Haha. Go slow fellow blade. But hey, no harm in seeing what happens. Just don't make it awkward at work man.
Sounds like she's clinging on to you for obvious reasons (boyfriend kicked her out, new baby, no car) proceed with caution OP
Like others have said I'd be very careful she's not just using you. Personally I'd stay away from something like this OP as it seems like it's just going to be more trouble than it is worth, but that is just me. If you really want to persist, take it very slow and try and gauge how she feels about you, etc.
It sounds like she might just be a user. I'd start distancing myself from her, OP. What fun are women with 9 month olds anyway?
If she is a user thats fine, i dont mind driving someone around and getting laid for it. I can easily invest no emotion, but if it turns out otherwise that would be cool I suppose
Wow what a fucked up boyfriend if he dumped his baby's mother out. Unless that wasn't the baby daddy. If that wasn't the baby daddy, you might want to steal clear of this one because that just means she is cycling through dudes to support her and her child. Like others said, go for it if you're down to accept the consequences
[quote name='"Bubbles42O"'] what the fucks a keekel hahaha?[/quote] Lol he meant kegels, like vagina strengthening exercises
yea dont push it to hard. you can still be a good freind. get some pussy. be there for her, with out her getting attached to you. its all how you control how she feels for you. and you gota let her know up front you are not trying to get to close to her like that.....
WARNING, INCOMING FRIEND ZONE, WARNING For real though it seems like she is only acting like this because you are the rebound. Not trying to insult you, if anything I'm trying to save you from getting sprung and then getting disappointed.
I've learned the lesson already. I'm done with matters of the heart, no more "getting sprung" for me.
Dude she was into you before the fight with her BF. Just take it slow and tell her how you feel about her and the situation.