I have a horrible time with figuring out if girls are into me. I met this girl last night that lives in my building and we went out w/ a big group. I was talking to her a decent amount, and i noticed she kept looking at me throughout the night, so i just kept trying to look at her and smile. So today i send her a facebook message asking her if she is going to some party tonite, and she says she isn't but is going out to eat w/ soem friends and then said I should go. I said I couldnt go but she shoudl let me know if she is gonna hang out w/ people back at the apt when she gets back, so she says she will and then gives me HER NUMBER w/o me asking and says to call in case I want to go out later. So what is the plan here guys? I am a decent looking guy, but I have no game and I am terrible at figuring out if a girl is into me.
Sounds to me like she is totally into to you. Damn she invited you & gave her number, but just take it slow you know get to know her I guess, be relaxed man.
how do you tell if she is just looking for another person to go out to parties w/ on the weekends though? For some reason im thinking she just gave me her number as a friend or something to call so she has more people to hang out w/ on the weekends?
Bro, from what it sounds like, she's diggin ya. Just play it smooth and don't think about it too much. The right moments will flow naturally.
well we are going to two different places tonite so I told her my number and said to give me a call later tonite when she gets back to the apts if she wants to hangout. Right move?
You're waaaayy overthinking. Just sit back and relax. Things will happen if you just chill with her and arn't a douche.
I say, who gives a fuck - there are so many women out there I don't even see the point about wondering whether or not a girl is giving you the right signals. If you like her, then I say approach her and make some moves. Play it cool, and if you don't feel like you should make a move on her or you don't feel comfy doing so, then don't. It's just about going with your gut and how you feel. But by the sound of it, she seems into you.
ha well I just graduated college and things have been slow since then and basically im on a 1 year + draught, and yea going over a year without hooking up w/ a girl will have you questioning your tactics.
what is the easiest way to "make a move" w/ a girl that lives in my apt complex? Ill be honest, i'm used to going after the easy girls at my school and most of them i just got from randomly dancing w/ them at parties and then hooked up and asked questions later. But this is different and i am not used to doing it this way.
True True, I respect were your coming from. but you can't question yourself like that its shitty on the self - esteem
Lots of ways - just be creative. If you are hanging out with her, touch her - like put your hand on her thigh or something and then see how she responds. You just gotta move slowly with women. Slowly see how far they will let you go, and if you start to feel that they are uneasy then back off. Really depends on if you like the girl or if you just wanna fuck her. Either way - I'd just play it as cool as you possibly can, throw some sexual innuendo's in there and see how she responds. It's really just all about reading body language.
just be straight forward if you want to hook up, and you know she wants to hook up look at her and say..."i guess we should hook up??" or something or the such..if she says no just call her a ***** just jokin bout the last part
do people really say that to eachother though? I hate how it is where I have no idea what she is thinking and she probably has zero idea I wanna hookup with her. If it could just be me asking her if she wants to hookup and she says yes or no, it would be so much easier and there would be no guesswork, but unfortunately it's not like that
well she gave you her number and said "here take this if you ever want to go out"...I think that means she wants to hook up.. "here have my number if you ever wanna go out" "oh for sure i wanna go out ill call you for sure" I mean thats kind of straight up....I mean just call her and ask her if shes doin anything that night and tell her that you wanna hang out n go out for dinner or something silly if you want I honestly think you just be straight forward what ever you say. Be honest. Speak up ** I think this chick is being straight up with you, givin you her ##, do the same. She gave you the ## so you could hook up, why would she have givin it in the first place if she didnt want to hook up.
