Its been 5 months and I am still saddened by the loss of a friendship. I became really good friends with one of my ex's female cousins. When my ex and I were breaking up she assured me that it would have no bearing on our friendship. That was true and we remained cool. At one point I was out of town for about 2 months. She called me with a business proposition. We set up a date and time for a conference call and I missed the call because I got wasted the night b4 and slept the whole next day. Out of embarrassment I didnt follow up. Super bad manners She doesn't put up with people messing with her money/buisness and she doesnt have many female friends due to trust issues. It took a while for us to become close-ish. IN ADDITION she changes her number often LOL and she deleted me off of Facebook. I realized that she deleted me around the time that some other drama was going on and I didn't rectify it then because I did not want to bring attention to myself. #coward ***perhaps I should mention that the drama concluded with my ex telling me not to ever contact him again (sure no prob douchebag!) and to cease contact with his family as well (not so easy I liked them more than him @that pt and i developed great relationships)*** I was gonna let it go mostly outta embarrassment, but I guess out of pseudo respect too. BUT now Im thinking about how her daughters bday is coming up; and how I was there when she found out she was preggo, to the birth to the first teeth. You know, milestones n I just feel shitty about how all of it turned out. So what do ya'll think? Is it too late? Should I just let it go? 50/50 chance she'd "take me back" but either way I just want her to know that I cared for her and I'm not the asshole that I seemed to be
One thing I've learned is that it's never too late to apologize to someone you've wronged. Send her a message letting her know how you feel and she can take it from there. Even if you don't reestablish a relationship you'll feel better knowing you tried.
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is this a friendship thing? if she said that her cousin and your breakup wouldn't affect the friendship between you two and she trusts you and you fuck up by not seeing her and she deletes you and doesn't talk to you anymore, it doesn't seem like she's a good friend. as much as a friend leaves me hanging or sometimes screws up, there's always resolution to be had. in my honest opinion you both fucked up, but amends can always be made.
I will send her a message if I go through with it. I think it will be best I may funk it up with my awkwardness if I call. Im guessing that was the music video? Im on my phone ^_^ I agree that her reaction was a bit much LOL I wouldn't have reacted that way at all. I woulda sent a text or called back.
yea man, tell her what's up. you've been thinking about it for a reason so hurry up and clear the air between you two before some one chokes.
Tbh I'm similar to her when it comes to money/business and I probably wouldn't forgive you. Maybe if we were bestfriends I'd still talk to you and never trust you with anything to do with business again but if we weren't extremely close, adios amiga. Still, you have nothing to lose with sending a msg because you already lost her.
