I'll be honest Im a virgin, never had a girlfriend. Im in college. It is not that Im ugly or socially inept, maybe inconfident though. Mainly just that: 1. I just want a casual relationship/friends with benefits, ultra chill 2. I never really tryed to get any (no parties+I don't like them), just too busy So I just heard of plenty of fish, sounds good. I'm just wondering is it frowned upon to be on these sites? I don't want my profile showing up on some search and collegues/business contacts thinking I suck. Because otherwise it sounds good... although I'm sort of worried about STDs or pregnancy risks but a condom should do.