Seems like there are a lot of guys on this forum who are lonely and depressed because they're reclusive introverts with no girlfriends ("I'm so lonely" thread, for instance. Like 30 guys in there with no girlfriends). Now, I'm the exact same way in terms of the reclusive, no girlfriend situation. I'm 20 years old and I have yet to have an actual girlfriend. But for some reason or another, it doesn't seem to bother me. At all. Sure, a girlfriend would be nice (probably), but I don't think it's enough of an issue to actually fret about. So now to the question in the topic title, are guys just being overdramatic? Or am I just missing out on how rad relationships really are? If I were to guess, I would say it's the former. Of all the relationships I've ever observed, maybe 1 in 25 (that's being optimistic) are relationships that I myself would actually like to be in, since the rest are jealous, squabbling, conniving insanity. But maybe I'm just a bitter pessimist who only sees the bad. Anyways, my mind is starting to unravel and I'm beginning to rant. Discuss!