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Is anyone else annoying?

Discussion in 'Beginner Cannabis Consumption & Tips' started by underprussia, Dec 30, 2010.

  1. #1 underprussia, Dec 30, 2010
    How in God's name do you stop?

    I smoked a fair bit in high school and I was probably the calmest person there is. Super quiet. I started smoking again recently in college and I literally cannot keep myself from talking, non-stop, about absolutely nothing.

    Normally, I have a pretty intense social anxiety when hanging out with people (especially because all of my friends are on the other side of the country so I'm smoking with my boyfriend's friends most of the time) so it's pretty odd to me that I've developed this problem.

    I almost always buy at least half of the weed smoked in any session. I don't move around a whole lot. I usually cook SOMETHING delicious for everyone to eat. But I just never stop talking and I feel, especially when I smoke with my boyfriend's friends, really guilty even with all that in mind. I worry I'll drive them away and be stuck smoking alone most of the time, ;P

    Bit of a wall of text but... Any advice?
     
  2. #2 ~Blu, Dec 30, 2010
    Try to look around the circle and see how much other people are talking and try to notice their reactions to what your saying. If they're treating you like your annoying then talk less? Listen to the kind of conversations that they bring up. To me, a conversation is more or less an exchange of information, like a trade. Make sure you have high quality content that is well produced, thoughtfully delivered, and appeals to your market. Once you start to notice your bad speaking habits you might find you repeat yourself, point out the obvious to much, have incorrect timing, or disrupt the flow of conversation. I used to talk a lot more and sometimes I still do if I'm excited or stop being mindful of the conversation. Good luck !

    :smoke:
     
  3. #3 Sick1988, Dec 30, 2010
    If they are not saying anything about it they may not mind, Try an ipod if it bothers them, this might cut you off from talking because you cant hear responses. and If you dont want to isolate yourself use 1 ear bud instead of both that way if they talk to you, you can hear but when no ones talking you can focus on the music.
     
  4. #4 ImTheJoker4u2, Dec 30, 2010
    Wow
    Perfectly stated:hello:

    /thread
     
  5. #5 underprussia, Dec 30, 2010
    @Blu - That was very well stated! Thank you for taking the time. :] There are times where I kinda catch myself so I think it'll be possible for me to pay attention a bit more. :p Maybe if I write a little note on my hand or something. "Mellow out!" :pP

    @Sick - Ahh! I can't believe I didn't think of that. Music is a sure way to shut me up for awhile, sober or not. :p I'll try that out too.

    Thanks for the replies, :]
     
  6. #6 StoneRage, Dec 30, 2010
    i was only annoying like my first few highs, now i barely talk. i just enjoy the high but my friend i smoke with never shuts up and he is uber annoying.
     
  7. #7 werslty, Dec 30, 2010
    I'm not sure, i seem a bit on the lower end of the social society, am a very quiet person, not talkative ever, i remember a couple people gave me the nickname "silent dude", but then when i toke, i seem to talk a bit more, there just seems more to talk about, like theres actually stuff going on.
     
  8. #8 kitty tummies, Dec 30, 2010
    i'm always freaking out that i'm talking too much, but i think i'm ok

    i was watching Fear and Loathing last night with 3 other people (two stoned/drunk girls and some half-stoned guy), and we were talking about the movie, but once i saw everyone passing out, i just stopped talking and pretty much fell asleep too
     
  9. #9 cornbiscuit420, Dec 31, 2010
    maybe you had a lot you wanted to say man haha
     
  10. #10 StolenSinner, Dec 31, 2010
    Don't have sex with your boyfriends friends.
     
  11. #11 underprussia, Dec 31, 2010

    I definitely agree, except I can even recognize that nothing is going on and it's still interesting to me!

    @corn, maybe man!

    @StolenSinner -- Haha, what the heck! That is horrible. I would rather punch myself in the vag.
     
  12. #12 kitty tummies, Dec 31, 2010
    oh you're a girl? it doesn't matter how long you talk for, then
     
  13. #13 StolenSinner, Dec 31, 2010
    Don't do that. I hit a girl in the vag with my skateboard, she cried :cry:
     
  14. #14 Savage4Liberty, Dec 31, 2010
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    lucky you! haha personally, i like hanging out with people who talk a lot.
     
  15. #15 underprussia, Dec 31, 2010
    @kitty - I think the charm from the T&A is long over when they all know I'm taken by their close friend, right? And I try really hard not to rely on that 'cause you never know when you'll become horribly disfigured and you'll have to get a bit of a personality, haha!

    @StolenSinner - I'd rather cry from physical pain than go back on my morals like that but I will try to avoid situations where skateboards and my vag conflict.

    @Savage - Haha, I wish more people would! I'm always filling up all the silence. Exhausting.
     
  16. #16 stonedpenguin, Dec 31, 2010
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    not talking is almost equally annoying. booooring.

    spazzy smokers can be really annoying, but unless your friends are a bunch of tight asses they really shouldn't mind, ESPECIALLY if youre supplying the weed.
    if youre really so concerned, think before you speak.

    but try not to care what other people think of you so much and just enjoy your high.
     
  17. #17 Down2Toke, Dec 31, 2010
    haha i talk so much when im blazed but im damn good at making people laugh. Not the annoying stoner that jumps everywhere i just speak my mind and it ends up being funny
     
  18. #18 tuchaka, Dec 31, 2010
    i get really motormouthy (if that's a word) if i have had a lot of B12 before i smoke otherwise i am pretty much the same
     

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