How do I convince a girl to take it in the butt? I'm not even about it but I just want to try it with a girl who has never shown any interest in taking it in the butt. I'm a little over average in size so I don't think that's the issue. Maybe she just hates buttsex. Give me ideas or something/drunk
that is the agreement my girlfriend and i are under.. we used to do it a lot then all of a sudden she wasn't havin it..
Don't ask. Just pull out when she's not paying attention and slip it up the pooper hole. She won't even notice.
Micropenises can have their benefits, can't they? OP, don't forget to use the line "Oops, sorry, wrong hole", but be sure to include added Trollface, for extra effect... Having said that, buttsecks is overrated imo.
I never fucked my current gf in the butt and I don't ever want to. Buttsex blows. I'd rather get a blowjob or fuck regular-style.
My man is average and surprise buttsex does NOT go unnoticed. It actually hurts so fucking much that it makes me puke when it "accidentally" goes into the wrong hole. If you want to see what her reaction is going to be perhaps start with your finger and see what she has to say. Other that communication with your girl will tell you what she thinks of it.
This. Unless you regularly do anal or use toys, the smooth muscle will be much much much too constricted to take anything bigger a finger unexpectedly. It will hurt unbelievably, like taking your bicep, and squeezing it violently until the muscles burn. Not only does it hurt, you can cause short term and long term damage, you can easily tear the muscle, lining, fascia, cause internal bleeding or hemorrhaging. Everyone jokes about surprise buttsecks,but I don't think people realize that porn stars not only are stretched and lubed well before the guy shoves it in her ass out of nowhere, but they also have experience and know what they are doing VERY well (fucking IS their job, and safety is important, for liability reasons especially). A guy who has never tried anal, trying to surprise his gf who has never tried anal and is not expecting it, sounds just downright fucked up when you think about it... But... My recommendation to the OP is to talk to the girl you are seeing/fucking, and if she is cool with it, then lube up, START SLOWWWW (it won't take long for her muscles to stretch, but you need to start super slow) and have fun. If she is against it, don't force it.
I feel bad now. I only had anal sex one time. Took an ex-girl to the park and nobody was around lol we definitely didn't have lube. This was about 10 years ago. I hope I didn't cause her any damage ;/ we don't talk much at all anymore.
Well first of all, start treating your women with some maturity and respect. Don't call it "in the butt" use terms like "anal pleasure" or something with a bit more respectability. The next thing is to be open and honest with your partner and DISCUSS IT AHEAD OF TIME. Maturely and rationally without emotion. And if she declines, DO NOT PRESS IT.
I like to call it,Butthole Pleasures. But that's not what it's about. It's not about rusty trombones,either.
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They sure do. But anal exploration is definitely not overrated. It actually makes you vomit? How/why? Well if that's true then I'll have to stop 'surprising' the women I sleep with. Here, here!
Well it's the only time where there's nothing I could do to ease that sense of pain for a good hour. It has happened a handful of times over the past 3 and a half years of my current relationship. A few times the pain would be so bad it would give me the shakes which then lead to vomiting for an additional hour. All because we get really into it and he slipped hard into the hole that was not lubricated, and not nearly relaxed enough for it. My boyfriend knows I don't mind trying things it's just that I have to know so that I can mentally and physically prepare myself for certain kind of actions. Every girl is different, my body cannot handle surprises that hurt.
But that means... I must have an extremely tiny wiener then. Lol I suppose you're right. Especially if you two were to be going crazily fast and then POW! wrong hole... Yeah. Not cool. I'm still going to give a few surprises with at least a finger though. I like surprises
I think a lot of males *initial* obsession with anal sex is simply because they haven't tried it. I have. Once. Had her walking funny. Seriously though, IMO not worth it...uncomfortably tight, dry without lube, and yeah IMO pussy just feels WAY better. I have an urge to say that if you've tried it and continue to have it as a preference it says something about your sexuality, but I know how full of "you're gay" shit this forum is...so in all fairness, perhaps your woman is loose.