Hi GC.. I need help.. I'm not a friendly or really nice person, because, quite frankly, I can't stand bullshit. I hate our societal values and what is deemed as culturally or socially unacceptable is based on a foundation of deception and capitalism, i.e. drugs. I hate fake people, douche bags, the blatantly materialistic women, blind conservatives, egotists who can't realize we are all the same etc. etc. I'm the kind of person who always calls people out on bullshit and a lot of people don't like this.. I come off as abrasive to a lot of people, but to people who are genuine and who also see the bullshit of the world I come off as true, and just a person who speaks his mind. But I'm in college now, and the college I go to is filled with douchebags, and I can't help but have contempt for them, but this makes me not friendly and cynical and I don't want to be the outsider in college.. How do I deal with this? I made a thread about this a while ago here http://forum.grasscity.com/general/895724-i-want-leave-place.html How can I stop hating? I want to be happy in this world, but the only time I am truly happy is when I'm around true friends.. Otherwise my happiness is drained when I realized how fucked up our world is.. How can I stop giving a fuck?
Turn that cynicism into biting wit, and bagfuls of jokes; Then you're sorted... Don't just be a dolly dampner on things saying "Oh I hate this, or that", put them with a twist that makes people laugh.
Just ask yourself whenever you get miffed, do I really give a damn. and if you do, well then just chill out little man. You think you see through people. But people see through your pessimistic Outlook and just pass you off as a person who can't get over small shit and just a Debbie downer
That's what I do. I'm not a daily dampener. I usually focus on how fucked up the world is to make jokes an it usually kills ifu have a sense of humor. I actually thought about becoming a comedian for a while. I basically think the same way as bill hicks but when someone is a blatant fuck, I can't help But hate them. Usually I turn thi hate into a funny thing, but I still feel the hate. I hate hating
It's alright, just do you. and if your consistent people will see it and like minded people will gravitate towards you.
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Be more chill and relaxed, though being two-faced is against my personal moral code. It's always easier to get accepted this way lmao
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