okay well i just got all sad right now thinking about life... so i just finished school at job corps so now im out of there and all my friends from there are from a different state so i cant hang with them plus my ex girl was there so im trying to forget about that place as much as possible...... and my friends i grew up with are all doing there own thing in life so all of us dont hang out like we used to so everything is different. This whole transition took place well i was living at job corps. I used to live by my childhood friends but since i moved its like a 10min drive and i dont have a car nor do they well 2 of them do but they have jobs so its not like we can chill alot n e ways... but its just sucks how life is changing and im just not ready for change i wish i still had my friends and everything was like b4 but it will never be the same i guess since we are all grown now well we're not grown grown im in the middle age wise with my friends. im 19 i got friends who are 21 20 19 18 18 and 17 so were kinda at different stages some are in college some are finishing high school and some work since i just finished school last week and i just registered for college since job corps was a trade school now imma go to college and i need to look for a job this is where my life stands right now and i dont know what to do friends wise cuz i feel lonly right now thats why im sad sorry for the long read and going on and on but i had no one where else to turn but the city for advice maybe some of yall been in a similar situation and can help me thru it
i used to feel like this once but you gotta drop the past and move on not saying drop any friend ships of course.
thats life OP, it happens man, I'm 22 now and all of my friends are doing their own thing as well, that is why you need to go out there and meet new people.. btw cook county eh? what town
social life isnt everything bud, Its important for everyone to go off on their own sooner or later in life. Look on the bright side,it helps build spine and individuality
what else can you do but keep on living being upset will only make your life crappy and no one wants to live a crappy life so look at the positive things in your life meet new people and move forward if they really are your friends they will make a point of getting in touch with you at some point if not then they never really mattered anyway
dude i know exactly how you feel now. i just went through that. i moved like 30 mines from my hometown and during that whole year i was only visited like twice. i always had to make the effort to hangout. and even when i did it just wasnt the same with my friends. you just kinda grow apart sometimes. but you live and learn and just meet a bunch of new people on the way. itll get better dude.
I'm so glad this ain't happened to me for the most part.... FB helps me keep in touch with some of the folks too. I mean I actually wanna brag about this shit. Me and my best friend. We went to the same elementary, middle, & high school. Now go to the same college. God bless this guy for getting me my job as well. I needed this low wage job to support my family during christmas because my mom is a dumbass with money.. lol So we've known each other for 13 years and been best friends for 12. I'm only 18 btw. Ahhhh... I love gc. Get's me focusing on the positives. Oh and dude, you should idk...once you get a job, get that paycheck and have like a monthly or "once every two weeks" get together with your mates.