Im gay but i wanna fuck girls? but i cant?

Labeling things isn't a very good idea. It doesn't really matter what you are (gay, bi), all that matters is that you do not put labels on yourself, that could block you from reacting naturally. It could be that you have been considering yourself gay all this time and now there's something new to explore that messes up the identity you thought you had. If women in porn turn you on, there is no reason why live ones shouldn't. 

 

You didn't get hard because you were either nervous or telling yourself you can't because you're gay.

Let go of that label. If you were 100% gay the appeal of sex with women wouldn't be there.

Good luck.

 

Just pretend its your boyfriends 8 piece.

 

yea just because you got turned on by the penis dosnt mean your gay
 
i dont even get the whole gay thing anyways
being gay is just a sexual decision.
just cause ur gay dosnt mean you have to live a certin way
 
and what is gay anyways?
back in the day in meant happy
 
dont let society tell you what you are
be whatever you want to be
 
ps get some pussy.
i fucked girls in the pussy and i fucked girls in the ass
the ass was great because you could bust a nut in there
 
but the pussy is best because its nice and juicy

 

well then you like both sexes which is kinda cool i guess because you can go to a bar or club and fuck a girl and a dude. whichever one you feelin at the moment

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I'm bisexual, and when im high i get attracted to girls but can hardly ever get up. The only time ive ever truely been hard is when i had both a guy and girl in the same bed. I was still more focused on the guy, but the girl got some good d to

 

Well op, you slay any pussies yet?

 

I'm gay.  What it means is I cannot stand the idea of having sex with a female and I love men.  Everything about men.  The way they talk, walk, joke, everything. I'm not flamboyant or campy (not that it matters) but I identify myself as gay.  If you know anything about the Kinsey scale then you'll realize there are different degrees of attraction towards the same and opposite sex. 
 
I don't understand this new trend of trying to dismantle the gay identity.  Yes, labels are bad because they employ stereotypes.  Gay isn't a label.  It's a community.  There is no "certain way" that gays are supposed to act or live.  There is a type of gay culture in larger urban communities that adopt certain mannerisms and "traditions".  They follow the trend.  Just like any other sub-culture there are similarities within groups.  For example:  Goths, Emos, Hipsters, Youtubers,  geeks, gamers, etc., etc.   
 
The gay community (as it's called) offered a feeling of belonging.  It became your second family and in most cases your first after being disowned or kicked out of your biological family.  There is safety in numbers and a lot of support.  When the AIDS epidemic began the world closed ranks against us because we were blamed for the outbreak.  Even though it it started and was spreading fast among heterosexuals in Africa.  We were refused hospital care, insurance, housing, even emergency services because of the fear of AIDS.  Doctors, nurses, and E.M.T.'s refused to treat known gay patients.  Even those that were not exposed to the virus.  We took matters into our own hands and started organizations that supported AIDS sufferers and promoted safe sex.  We were the only demographic to actually decrease the rate of infection with the prevention and testing campaign.  It became a badge of honor to get tested instead of shame.
 
We have fought hard to gain acceptance and equality and it's a great disservice to all those who worked and sacrificed so much to get where we are now by saying being gay is only about sex.  it's far more than that.  
 
edit:  stupid typos. 

 

RELAX
ENJOY IT
IF YOU CUM YOU CUM, IF NOT IT'S STILL HOT
 
That's the best advice I ever got about sex, from the gal who became my wife :-D
 
Seriously, don't sweat it--if you're with a girl and you're both down, do whatever turns you both on.  
See how far it goes--and if you're worried about "doing it wrong", don't be!  Naked girls are pretty forgiving as long as you don't hurt them!
 
Do what feels good, and keep doing what keeps feeling better--and when it stops feeling good, slow down and do something else instead.  
 
Don't worry!  
 
I suspect that talking about how you're into guys will TURN THEM ON.
I also suspect that being honest about wanting to learn about girls will also turn them on.
 
Girls dig guys who are chill.  Honesty and a touch of vulnerability help tons.
 
Just be careful--dudes can't get preggo, but girls can ;-)

 

I can only imagine what that's like, and I'm so very happy we're making strides to letting people live free of fear, isolation and violence.  Yay for community; yay for support.
 
Just wanted to say that I think the comments about the label "gay" in this context are meant to mean "relax, don't let an identity get in the way of who you are."  
 
I agree 100% that language performs identity, and that a community can control its destiny by controlling names of and about itself.
The shit end of that stick, however, is that if you tell yourself "I can't; I'm gay" (or straight or whatever) will get in the way of Mr. Happy.  

 

I've never heard of such a situation good look OP

 

 It's funny you mention that, because the AIDS epidemic was almost entirely the Red-cross's fault.  Irony, no?

 

Sexual desires don't determine your sexual orientation, in my eyes. I'm gay because at the end of the day I want to come home to a man. Love and be loved by them on more than a physical level. I can't connect with women on that level. If I got a hard on over a female, I wouldn't start questioning my sexuality. Hasn't ever happened though and I doubt it ever will.

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Your bi.. And your just confused and not ready for girls I think.

 

Very wise response. 

 

Much appreciated   

 

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