i told my mom i smoked and she flipped.

With a statement like that, I don't think there's any helping her. I'd personally try The Union

Not much you can say though when she mentions that it's illegal.

 

Sure you can, give her the speel on how they retardified some fuckin poor little monkeys just to illegalize a plant.
made up words are fun but seriously.

 

Tell her that it's illegal for the wrong reasons. Also tell her that you're an adult now and have the right to choose what goes into your body. Does she drink by any chance? You could have her read the book "Marijuana is Safer. So why are we pushing people to drink?"

 

Doesn't matter why it's illegal, it's illegal. If you get caught, you're fucked. That's the main thing parents rant on about.

 

Tell her I are an adult and if I am caught by law enforcement smoking marijuana I will accept the consequences. But for now you have no business telling me what to do and not to do with my life.

 

If you have no prior involvement with the police you will get a promise to appear in most places, but yea, entirely true I wouldn't wanna see my son if I had one get taken downtown unless he was a little shithead

and this, she can stop you from smoking inside so, just go outside?
what I was told when I was 14 was that if I wanted to smoke weed it was fine but i had to buy it off my mom and i had to smoke it inside, lol.
still was good times not being able to be caught.

 

Yes, and the ONLY rational argument you can build against the legality issue is convincing them that you're doing everything in your power to minimize the chance of getting caught and having it affect your life.

Know your own laws. Perhaps it's been decriminalized where you live. State that to your parents, and explain to them that it's NOT the end of the world if you get caught, and it's not much worse than a traffic ticket.

If your laws are more strict, then know them, and state you are using that information to your advantage. For example:

Only obtain and hold amounts that are in the misdemeanor level (vs. felony amounts).

Never have baggies or scales or any other equipment that would suggest distribution (usually an automatic felony charge).

Have your dealer come to your house instead of you going out in public to meet him/her to get it.

Only smoke in the house, and never drive after smoking.

Do all these, and you've pretty much eliminated the chances of getting caught.

Even with all of this, sometimes it's just really tough to get past the legal issue with most parents, especially if you're doing it under THEIR roof. Good luck.

 

Most people that smoke are just hanging out at someone's house while they're doing it so there is like no chance to get caught. Why would they still bitch if you can't get caught?

 

No matter what you can get caught , even if your in someones house , there's always a chance

 

Or, I dont know, research maybe?

 

you gotta be like mom im an adult now so you cant stop me from smoking the health risks are minimal to none so dont worry im gonna do it anyway you cant stop me ill be ok and tell her you will find a job for sure...

 

bro same here. and i was like, well i can either lie to you and keep smoking, or tell you the truth and keep smoking. but i'm not going to stop hahh.

 

That's why at the age of 18 you can say to your parent's "I don't care what you think, if you don't respect my choices, im out of here! (slams the door)"

 

And i bet you smoke weed without problems now lol...+rep for being from texas haha

 

Haha yeah that's my problem right now. She says it's illegal and it's expensive, both are true and I have nothing to say about those haha

 

lol i bet she smoked weed before and didnt like it...thats why she saying its bad dont worry...just dont blaze under her roof...and she cant do fuck.

 

She's just being a mom man. I shoulda told my mom, she found out the hard way. Just tell her you're living life the way you want to live it bro, be open with her. She loves you and doesn't want you to get hurt. Sadly, most people don't know what weed is really like and take it as some crazy bad thing.