i need some cheering up

Discussion in 'General' started by modern-hippy, Oct 21, 2004.

  1. #1 modern-hippy, Oct 21, 2004
    so Ive been like best friends with this girl for a long time. 2 days ago we fooled around for the first time and she gave me a blow job. i was all happy and everything... then she had to go home and said we would have sex the next time. so i went out and bought condems. now she said things just got to awkward between us since we have been friends so long, and we should go back to just friends, and no more fooling around. I wouldnt care so much if it was just about sex, but its not. I love this girl. i love her with all my heart. i dont want anybody else but her. If i had to choose between her and a million dollars i would choose her. Im just... heart broken as hell.... i wish i had some weed.. that would make me feel at least a little better
     
  2. #2 scarymoose, Oct 21, 2004
    dry your eyes mate
    i know its hard to take but her mind has been made up
    theres plenty more fish in the sea
     
  3. #3 NeonKB, Oct 21, 2004
    Did you take a shower befor she did it cause if it tasted nasty that could be the hole reason she dident want to do it anymore
    :(
     
  4. #4 FunDays, Oct 21, 2004
    maybe if you tell her you have feeling for her as more then a friend she will change her tune. If she doesn't know you like her so much she might just be saying she wants to keep it friendly because she might think your in it for just sex and what not.
     
  5. #5 Natural Mystic, Oct 21, 2004
    Yea.. you should tell her how you feel.
     
  6. #6 4Degrees, Oct 21, 2004
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  7. #7 Mr Skinner, Oct 21, 2004
    Awwww...tricky situation....but it would be unbearable for you to go back to friends after what happened. That's what you have to tell her. Be completely straightforward with her. And tell her if she doesn't want to be your girlfriend she'll have to accept that you need some time for yourself to get her out of your head.

    Really feel with you, mate. This is the hardest situation for old friends. But being old friends you should be able to talk about everything and understand each other..

    Hope all goes well for ya...keeping me fingers crossed
     
  8. #8 brian hobo, Oct 22, 2004

    the end of the something i did not want to end,
    begining of hard times to come.
    but something that was not meant to be is done,
    and this is the start of what was.
     
  9. #9 Deleted member 12970, Oct 23, 2004
    i vote for tellin her how you feel, at least you can get it off your chest, and let her know you have deep feelings for her
     

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