I need cheering up blades

[quote name='"thelizardkin"']I saw the guy last night it was painful to listen to him describe it and apparently my other friend who knows I liked her was eating her out but went to the bathroom and the other 2 fucked so I'm kinda pissed at him but I didn't say anything beacuse we were high and I didn't want to ruin the vibe btw I found out he fucked her bb I hope she gets pregnant[/quote]

So shes wicked amazing and awesome and you hope she gets pregnant because she hooked up with a couple guys when you didn't even show interest? This latest post makes me mad lol. You're too scared to even call out your shitty friend on eating that girls nasty snatch when he knew you liked her.. No wonder you don't get girls man. Yeah yeah, "sorry for being harsh" or whatever but man.. Grow a pair.

One second you love this girl and idolize her then she hooks up with someone and you hope she gets pregnant? rofl. If you like a girl, make a move. Unless you guys already have something going on you can't get mad at her or your friends, be mad at yourself for not trying anything.

 

You need to take a look at who you call your friends. A friend wouldn't do that to you, they'd back off from an STI riddled slut. You've set your hopes high in hope that you'd finally get a girl and not have to settle for less. Why make yourself feel like you're worthless when you're worth much more? You'll get a good girl but that comes with time. At your current stage in life, the people you like are merely crushes, they fade with time. You need to forget about her and realise that SHE didn't deserve YOU. Don't let a bitch like that ruin your confidience or make you feel like you have to settle for the next best thing. If chicks are going to be superficial and shallow, they aren't even worth your piss.

 

[quote name='"ShaniaKLz"']

You need to take a look at who you call your friends. A friend wouldn't do that to you, they'd back off from an STI riddled slut. You've set your hopes high in hope that you'd finally get a girl and not have to settle for less. Why make yourself feel like you're worthless when you're worth much more? You'll get a good girl but that comes with time. At your current stage in life, the people you like are merely crushes, they fade with time. You need to forget about her and realise that SHE didn't deserve YOU. Don't let a bitch like that ruin your confidience or make you feel like you have to settle for the next best thing. If chicks are going to be superficial and shallow, they aren't even worth your piss.[/quote]

Omg dude c'mon. How are his friends in the wrong? You can't just be like "I like her" and not try anything and expect your friends to just leave her alone. This isn't middle school lol there's no dibs

 

Are you kidding me? So a chick you really liked and you didn't have much self confidience, got ate out by your friend then fucked by 2 others, you wouldn't be pissed? If not, you clearly don't like her that much.

 

[quote name='"ShaniaKLz"']

Are you kidding me? So a chick you really liked and you didn't have much self confidience, got ate out by your friend then fucked by 2 others, you wouldn't be pissed? If not, you clearly don't like her that much.[/quote]

He obviously didn't know her well enough to "really like her" if she did that shit.

 

You can know someone your entire life only to discover you never really knew them at all.

 

[quote name='"ShaniaKLz"']

You can know someone your entire life only to discover you never really knew them at all.[/quote]

Read the op's last post rofl. They all "liked" her and he didn't even try anything.

 

Didn't you at least feel betrayed that even though this guy you consider a friend knew you liked her that much but went ahead and done what he did anyway?

 

Because he didn't have the confidience to.

 

[quote name='"ShaniaKLz"']

Because he didn't have the confidience to.[/quote]

And thats his friends' fault? If anything they showed him she isn't worth liking. If they all like a girl and shes wasted at a party trying to fuck the other 2 then what obligation do they have to not do anything? "you're single and drunk and clearly a slut who wants it. But my friend has no self confidence, sorry" lmao. It's fair game man, are you in high school or something?

 

She didn't know him that long? lol A little ironic seeing how she gave it up to people she wasn't even dating. She's clearly a hoe that'll spread them for even the smell of dick.

 

Hey there!

Saw your post on the stoner chick thread so I thought I'd stop by and see what's up..

I have to say that I am very sorry for your situation op.. Things like this have happened to all of us in one fashion or another.. The important thing now is to learn from it to avoid making the same mistakes in the future..

You have the right to feel betrayed by your friends, but knowing that all of them like her before you means you were late to the game so to speak.. All of them had already established a relationship with her by the time you put your foot in the door..

Next time you have a crush on a girl you need to maintain confidence and get to know her.. If she missed a class introduce yourself and offer up the notes or offer to show her around.. Girls like guys that can carry their own.. They expect you to be able to protect them, but if you don't have confidence in yourself she won't as well..

You also can't really blame the girl for betraying you if you never told her of your feelings.. Same with your friends.. Be up front and honest when you like someone, but only after you get to know them a bit.. Just don't get stuck in the friend zone.. Ask her if she would like to go out on a date after she gets settled down a bit.. Let her know that you're looking for something, but not in a rush to get there..

For your friends if they know and they go for her anyway then they weren't friends to begin with.. Since they didn't know I'd suggest asking them if any of them have feelings for her.. If they already had feelings for her as well and didn't know that you liked her then it is hard to really blame them for taking the opportunity..

It may be easy to take it out on your bro who ate her out, but he also liked her first.. He had already asked her out and was shut down.. For him to not have sex with her while they were all drunk and to just walk out of the room took balls.. I would be worried though that he didn't tell you though.. True friend's fess up when they make a mistake..

If you are wishing though that the girl gets pregnant from this situation then you didn't like her to begin with and are just dragging it out.. That is a terrible thing to wish upon anyone.. What if she did get pregnant from one of your friends.. Her life as well as his is completely changed forever.. All their hopes and dreams crushed because of one drunken night.. She didn't know you liked her and he didn't know you like her.. Karma.. Be careful..

In the opening you said you were going after this girl just so you don't have to be with a "fatty"... First you gotta stop that and have confidence in yourself.. That isn't a way to be if you want to have a relationship with anyone.. Second looks are important, but not as important as the person within.. Instead of labeling girls by appearance get to know them all..

It will teach you confidence and you never know what you may be missing out on.. I mean you liked this girl because of looks and she fucked two of your friends and was eaten out by another.. There are plenty of girls out there that wouldn't put themselves in that situation in the first place..

You don't have to like a girl to talk to her though.. Just talk.. Help them out when you can.. Act mature.. Trust me she will mention you to friends.. They will mention you to their other friends.. The buzz will get going and once you find a girl you've made a connection with her decision will be easy when all the girls talk about how amazing you are..

So in short have confidence.. Widen your standards.. And be up front.. In no time at all you'll be in a relationship with a great girl.. If you are just looking to get laid though then I'd suggest going to some of those parties with your friends because apparently those parties are crazy..

 

Awe sorry to hear that brahhh, sadly most teenage girls that live in the city nowadays are easy goofy floozies. There's not much you can do about it unless you find yourself a good respectable woman that isn't a major wack-a-doo, which isn't easy. I wish you the best of luck bud.