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Discussion in 'Sex, Love & Relationships' started by Kottonmouth 420, Jan 28, 2010.

  1. Ok so i started dating this girl in the beginnng of December, we have been like best friends forever but on new years i cheated on her. I never told for fear she would break up with me because she has always said that is the one thing she hates most is people cheating. i know its only been like a month sense then but I think i really love her. What should I do?
     
  2. #2 soapman, Jan 28, 2010
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    You should tell her you're a cheater....that's not cool man.

    Okay but for some real advice. You shouldn't start relationships out on a lie. It never works out, if you feel like you wanna make things work than you should tell her what you did. She might hate you for it but that's the price you gotta be willing to pay. If you love her than you'll be okay with that.
     
  3. #3 Mairuzu, Jan 28, 2010
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    For her sake I hope she realizes what a waste of time you are. You don't love her, the fact that you even brough the word up makes you look very ignorant of love, but if you truely do feel that you do, her happiness comes before yours. Little too late for that eh?
     
  4. If you have any respect for her at all, you have to tell her. If she thinks you're worth it despite this, she'll keep you, if not she won't.
     
  5. Prepare for the worst then tell her. The relationship is still young so she won't be as upset as she would be if this happened 5 years down the road.

    Get it out of your system, that shit will ALWAYS be in the back of your mind if you don't tell her
     

  6. Shit happens, to feel regret means he isnt a total jerk.

    OP you have two choices. Deny the HELL out of it. Or come clean and risk getting dumped and then having a great reputation as a cheater.
     
  7. She's going to find out sooner or later, I say be honest with her. You should have thought twice when cheating on her if you "love" her as you say you do, sorry. I mean I know people fuck up sometimes but if I love someone the last thing I'd do is cheat.
     
  8. First off...more details on the cheating at New Years. Is there any possible way she would ever find out? Geez, you were only dating for a month at that point so were you exclusive at that point or still just dating? Have things progressed to the point that you are dating exclusively and actually had that conversation? When was that conversation?

    You get where I am going, were you on exclusive arrangements at that time of the incident, if not, move forward and keep your dick in your pants and your hands to yourself unless it is her from here forward.
     
  9. Idk man think of the shaggy song...
    [ame=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cQ4axo9rmJY]YouTube - Shaggy - It Wasn't Me (Music Video)[/ame]
     
  10. I am thoroughly impressed by the advice that the guys are giving. I feel like most guys would say shit like, "what she doesn't know won't hurt her." etc. Impressive.
     
  11. seriously ur not hoRrible because u cheated on ur gf of a month so get over it, learn from your mistake, if you love her just never do it again and move on, the more u dwell on it the more your going to have issues with it. DO NOT TELL HER IF YOU PLAN ON HAVING A RELATIONSHIP WITH HER, EITHER SHELL DUMP YOUR ASS OR YOULL BE PAYING FOR IT EVER DAY WITH HER NOT LETTING YOU HAVE FREEDOM so just dont do it again, if you end up doing it again than know that shes not that special cause u cant keep you dick outta other chicks and end it, and dont tell her thats its cause u cheated on her, it will crush her
     
  12. [ame=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p1RC8PFAQl8]YouTube - Slick Rick - 2 Way Street[/ame]

    Listen to the chorus...
     
  13. haha.. tell the girl. maybe she loves you as much as you love her, and she'll also have some confessions like yours to prove it! for real though.. if you really do love her, tell her but make it like it was longer ago, before you knew you loved her.
     
  14. I mean you should tell her but it could also mean the end of you two. Why did you cheat bro?
     

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