I know this is a kind of a stupid question asking it on a weed forum but I don't have anyone to talk to right now. I just moved to a new town and got a new job at a grocery store. I've been talking to this really cute girl at work and I can tell she's kinda a slut but she seems really cool. We talk about sports, cars, and going to strip clubs, mostly guy stuff. She's into a lot of things that I am. she's been asking people if I have a girlfriend, and asking people what they think of me. But I want to hang out with her really bad but I'm not into her right now and I don't want here to think that. I don't have any friends here so I want someone to kick back and chill with. How do I ask here out without here thinking I want to fuck her?
Sounds like you're looking a gift horse in the mouth to me man. Why not fuck her, assuming she's not got the creepy crawlies or some other nastier venereal disease? Just make it clear that you're not looking for a relationship... There's nothing better than friends with benefits. ///M
The fuck are you 15? So shes really cute and really cool and shes been asking about you and your relationship status and you want to hang with her but your not into her right now but you just moved to a new town and dont have any friends???? Goddamit man get with this girl, meet some of her friends, get laid and expand your social circle. The fuck....
issue with new town, and meeting a girl first, then becoming her BF and or fuck buddy when shit hits the fan, you lose all your new found friends lol op is playing it safe if you ask me, and you know, some guys think with their brains, not with their dicks hahahahha
I'm just not that guy, like I wouldn't even know what to say if I had the chance. Every time I talk to a women I think about how I'm going to screw up the conversation. I can't shut it off either, it's always on my mind. Its not that I wouldn't want to sleep with here, but I'm a 19yo virgin with not much experience with the ladies. Haha don't tell me to be yourself because I hate myself.
[quote name='"SIRSOG"']some guys think with their brains, not with their dicks hahahahha[/quote] Prove it!
No no, see, thats not what he is saying, he said its not that he doesnt BUT then continued to answer why he actually doesnt lol plus, im not mentally chained to getting pussy... IMO that shits a distraction, women rule you if you need to get after them lol (not that its a bad thing, but i have more going on in my life than the need to party and have sex)... I think with my brain first, if my brain says get laid, i go and accomplish its mission
If she's a "slut" then that means she can teach you the tricks of the trade, sir! You gotta learn some time... My first was with a girl who had slept with a few guys before me. You might think that would make it more awkward, but as long as you communicate you can overcome it. If I had been with a virgin my first time, both of us woulda been like "well, where do we go from here?" but instead, she taught me how to drive (at least her) wild. If she wants to bang you, just do it man. You only live once. ///M *edit* Now, I should clarify. If she's an honest-to-god borderline whore, then don't touch it. But a lot of times girls get labeled as sluts just because they've had a few partners or enjoy sex. If guys got the same labels as girls, we'd be a pretty slutty bunch. So take everything you hear with a grain of salt.
You are overthinking this so much. Obviously you CAN talk to women because this chick is into you. Man if she is asking about your relationship status you are pretty much into her pants already. All you have to do is invite her to dinner (or something else obviously a date) and other than that don't do anything special. STOP FUCKING THINKING ABOUT IT. YOU LIKE HER. SHE LIKES YOU. SO QUIT BEING THE DAMN PROBLEM! "blah blah blah I hate myself I can't talk to girls even though this girl totally wants my cock blah blah blah" ^^ this is what I hear from you right now. Man up! Seriously. Just go for it. Sometimes it works and it pays off more than you can imagine. Sometimes you get turned down and you feel like a real idiot. Rinse, repeat. Edit - As for "hearing that she is a slut" make sure you take that with a grain of salt. Lots of people are eager to spread rumors with no evidence, it's easy for a girl to be labeled a slut because one ex-boyfriend talked a bunch of shit after they broke up. Unless you have talked to multiple people who have fucked her in a short time, I wouldn't even give it a second thought.
Yeah go for it man! Also, don't always listen to people's opinions of those you don't know. Maybe she's not really a slut. Well whatever makes you feel better lol... You need to get your dick wet so you can have more confidence in the future. If you want to know how to get into a woman's mind and have more confidence in talking to them, read this book: The Game (by Neil Strauss). Thank me later... Get er done!
[quote name='"905kushh"']come on bro, all girls are sluts, the smart ones just dont get caught, just do you, if shes with it then she will stop whatever, if she dosnt then she aintworth it.[/quote] Haha not all girls are sluts....all the girls YOU KNOW are sluts...or maybe they cheated on you because you called em sluts
