So I have been living with my mother for the past 1-2 years. My mother is bipolar and my father is said to be a sick control freak by many people and I agree. I feel like I have nothing in my life even though I have a very full life, I am a strongwilled person but things have gotten me down a lot lately and I can't take it. I feel like there is no one who truly wants the best for me I have done everything myself, I have literally worked my ass off for months and months saving up money to move out and be on my own because I am not happy the way things are going, and tbh I have never really been happy dealing with my parents. Even many adults, family and friends etc have recommended that I get the hell out and get as far away from them as I can. I am 18 and I am at the point in my life were I can make my own decisions I just feel that I don't know as much about the world as I want to. I want to move out but I don't have a legit job, I work on ebay and in a store my friend owns selling gaming cards but I do make a good deal of money, 3-4 grand a month if I dedicate myself and 2 thousand if I don't dedicate myself and work as I please. That being said I am starting college on january 23. I love weed and I feel as though it has helped me a lot in my life and motivate me to move forward. People have looked down upon me for my use and it's complete bullshit that irks the hell out of me. I understand that it's illegal, but I am a careful person and the last thing I would want to do is get arrested, if I smoke outside I only have a gram+blunt no more than that incase of a possible situaton I would be able to toss it or eat it, and the majority of the time I smoke indoors with friends which is 100% safe. I work all day then I go out with my friends at night and make sure I have a good time and laugh and have some positivity in my life. I just don't know what to do. At this point, I want to move to california and grow and go to college up there. Is there anything wrong with what I want to do? how would you go about this, what goals would you set if you were me. I am getting a car in a month btw. I just want some guidence.