K well I wasn't going out with this girl for a long time, like a week but she's really hot and funny. Well she's like the party girl older guys went out with her and she thinks I'm hella cute and all that good stuff right. Well my best friend has a huge crush on her and he tells me she's a hoe when I first meet her cuz he knows she likes me and he really likes her but he later tells me he lied because he didnt want me to get with her. Well my ex and this guy always laugh and stuff around each other and i was aware of like a thing but I dunno. He would always talk to her on the phone and she was hella dedicated to me but it started slipping away but not drastically. Well my friend calls me today and he's like hey you wanna do some stuff with some girls tonight since ur girl is gonna be hella sick cuz her teeth are getting pulled and all that. I'm like whatever. There I fucked up I told him I wont tell her if she doesn't tell him. She calls me later and is like I'm mad at u for what u said and all that. I feel hella bad think about buying her some flowers and all that. Well my friend tells me he's gonna stay home but he's really over there (i dont know this). Well I called her best friend and ask her what's up and she's telling me yeah i think you're right for thinking that. Well I call my friend and I'm like yeah blah blah blah hey hold on i'mma call u at ur house. He's like nah nah dont call my house and all that. That's where i caught him slipping. I tell him I'mma go over to this party and we get off the phone. Right then she calls me and is like hey what are u doing and blah blah blah. After a few seconds i'm like I think u two make a better couple then us so maybe u should be with him. At this time I'm not mad or anything I'm in a good mood and she knows. I tell her I think we should break up and she's talking about to click on me I just click on her like fuck that. I call her friend and then call my best friend and he doesn't answer and I leave a voice mail saying no female is ever gonna get between us and it's cool i just wish u wouldn't have lied. I call her friend again and tell her what's up and then get off the phone and my ex calls. She's like yeah I need my belly button ring back trying to make me mad and i'm like alright come over and get it. And we start talking and she's like you never cared and blah blah trying to make herself feel better for me breaking up with her. Well we start talking and I'm like nah i'm keeping ur belly button ring so I can remember u and all that good stuff flirting a bit. I'm like we can still be friends don't even trip and she's like well call my back when u get back from the party. there was no party and i'm not calling her till tomorrow. Honestly i can tell she's upset but oh well I was a bit sad when she found out the thing about the girls but lolz i'm not even upset or anything right now. Oh well I'll call her tomorrow its like a 50/50 we might get back together but if we don't things swiftly come and go right? Sorry for this being hella long but I like reading the long stories but ugh maybe that's just me alright then guys...
im glad youre taking it cool man. yea its a little shady what your friend did. but whatever. we've all been through that. but man. good thing you guys only been together for a week. idk how id react if i broke up with my gf now. or if i found her with my friend! oh god. id be breaking skulls. but yea, its awesome how you could just kind of brush it off your shoulder. well hoep you get what you want man. good luck.
yeah dude its chill taht u can be cool about it. but i would be mad pissed. at my best friend mainly. but i dont see how you could handle it so well if u didnt turely like the chick. but im glad u could stay cool with your best friend.
A week and your worrying???That dude isn't your friend if he's hanging with your lady behind your back and lying to you..I'd give him something to remember what happens when he lies to me..
nah man u dont need to kick ur best friend's ass ... hes your best friend... but you should sit down with him and be like.. dude ur a dick
He needs something...Friends don't lie and go with your girl behind you back..A punch never hurt anyone...He deserves it but u can't trust this dude..That's the type that would roll on you over shit..
It's applaudable for you to step aside for a friend. i've done it on many occasions, but really, it's his fault for not calling dibs in the first place, or tellin you straight up, "hey man,i'm kinda into this one. have been for a while. mind stepping aside?" that's what friends do. If i were you, i'd tell him that, cause your friendship is obviously more important to you than she is, and then require him to let you slap him across the face as hard as you want. that seems fair, cause it's pretty much the biggest no-no in the book to go chill with your friend's girl behind his back. I've hung out one-on-one with my friend's girls lots of times, never would i let anything happen, cause i don't do that to friends, but even though it's not a big deal, i always let them know, "hey man, Tara (or whoever) is gonna help me pick out a pair of shoes, so we'll be at the mall for a few hours." "alright man, have fun." It's probably unecessary, but it's definitely appreciated. Your friend fucked up, and he needs to know, regardless of how okay you are with the situation. and you should get to slap him, because that's funny.
you might get back together? this post has retarded me. what a waste of time. i move to install a bullshit filter on gc.. mods?
well i did like this girl but some shit happened years ago and i dunno sounds stupid but emotions can be turned off and i can move on hella easily and when me and this girl first started going out i told her if u ever have the slightest hesitation about our relationship just let me know. that guy who did that is my best friend and he'd do anything for me and i'd do the same. i'm not mad about him doing something with the girl cuz i know it wasn't anything sexual but i'm just a little mad he lied to me you know? but i think this girl knows she fucked up but i dunno. like i'm not an ugly guy (not trying to sound conceited) and i can get other girls. but yeah i'mma sit down and talk to my friend like the other guy said. thanks guys for ur input. means a lot k later.