Is this wrong of me? Does this make me gay? It feels like i'm doing it all wrong, all of my guy friends talk about hooking up with girls at our college all the time, and the girls seem to not mind it either. It bothers me though, I feel sometimes guys just use women like an object just for sex. Kind of disgusting in my opinion, and if I were to do a one night stand I would feel bad for doing it. I care about a girls emotions a lot. I would rather smoke a bowl and just talk about life than have sex all the time. Is this wrong of me? I don't want to seem gay. Honestly I am a little confused. I am still 18 and young inside emotionally. I am still learning about life. Just want some opinions on this.. sometimes i'll talk like I want to, but then realize it doesn't feel right, and I end up never doing it. It's only when I have a real girlfriend that I want something. I don't want everything to be about sex, but some girls don't give me a chance because they think I just want a one night stand too. I don't know if i'll ever find happiness though. I have lost so many girls who actually doubt I would be honest and faithful just because they consider all guys douche bags. What do I do guys? I'm really confused.