Well, I'm a girl. Let's start with that.. I'm bi, and I have a crush on a girl who is a lesbian. But the problem is she is one of my best friends. She had a girlfriend, and they broke up, and her ex girlfriend told me she had a crush on me, (I didn't do anything with that).. .. well so anyway, the girl I have a crush on she was still in love with her ex girlfriend when she knew I had a crush on her. She never said anything about it but I knew she wasn't interested.. Ok so I tried sending out other vibes, right, like I don't like you like that just as a friend vibes so that everything would be great and we could stay friends and so we did. Well noooow, she's over he ex girlfriend, because it's been a year now, and I can't tell but I think she might be into me now. She's been calling me more and inviting me to come over more.. and I always spend the night with her and usually her best friend and her share the bed but now when I come over the other girl sleeps on the couch so I can sleep in the bed with my crush.. And one time a few months ago when I got in bed late she tried starting something.. but she was a little drunk. And last weekend I asked her if I had tried to kiss her the night before and she said no, and I said must have been a dream, and she kinda liked that.. So I don't know what I should do.. If I should say something or try something? Or what!!!! Give it more time? Wait for her to talk to me or make a move.... IDK. Because I really do have feelings for her and would want to be with her, but I don't want to mess up our friendship.. I don't know.. and she was in the hospital today and she called me and wanted me to come over.. I really wanted to go and take care of her but I didn't.. What should I do!!!!