I don\'t know where to start. This is a little about the problem. My daughter which is 21 has been dating this guy for 3 months now, the problem being that she called tonight and said she wanted to get away but she feared her life and our life. The man she was with said if she tried to leave he would hunt her down and kill her and her family. she id s really scared and i don\'t know how to handle this. The biggest problem of it all is that he will do it, we have now learned that he is the biggest ice dealer where i live and turning a 100,000 dollars a week this makes the problem worse. I am now deep into a movie type sitution where people are really going to get killed. See i might smoke a little trees every now and then but i don\'t do things like ice and powder but i do know the people who deal with it are serious people and i think that me and my 4 other chlidren may now be in harm, not only that i have to get my oldest daughter out of this mess before she ends up dead. What do I do. He pays off most of the law enforcement around here and works with alot of people on the upper end of the goverment. I think im fucked.
wow man, that sounds like a movie plot. that\'s definately one of the most unenviable position I can think of to be in. the only thing I can think of is to get your daughter at a time when you believe you\'ll have the most time and get as far away as possible, maybe even another country if possible. maybe see what kind of arrangements you can make ahead of time. this can have no good ending by the sounds of it, and you can\'t count on any one but yourself. gl
thats what i have come up with but i really don\'t know thats why i was asking advice from others cause i so lost . i never thought i would have to face something like this.this guy is for real and thats what worries me . He won\' t let her leave his side and he won\'t bring her back over. So i really don\'t even know where she is at . when she called she did\'nt have much time to talk and she wasn\'t sure were she was at.
agreed, move and move as quickly as possible. if your suspicions about the police and government officials being bribed are true there is no chance of a restraining order.
CALL THE COPS(DEA) IMMEDIATELY.. NO PART OF THAT SITUATION IS ONE YOU WANT YOUR DAUGHTER TO BE INVOLVED IN... GET YOUR DAUGHTER HOME, ASAP... GET OFF THE INTERNET... DO SOMETHING...you may have to relocate, talk to someone involved in the witness protection program... your daughter may have to appear in court against this guy, and you will need and want all the protection you can get...
The reason i know the police are paid off is back when they first started dating i didn\'t know of the stuff he does and i had called the police one day when i seen him put a 44 to my neighbors head and the police never came later that night my windows got busted out of my house and the outside lights were all busted when i called the police back they ask me if i seen who done it , i said no , and they said they couldn\'t help me. im telling you i am so screwed and i really don\'t have the funds to pack up and move. My neighbor is watching my house tonight to try and keep my family safe untill i can get a plan. I have not called the police i know it wont do anything but put a target on my familys head.
Really you should contact some sort of law enforcement. Get numbers for offices outside of your town and let them know whats going on.
well that pretty much confirms that going to the police is out of the question. since you don\'t have the funds to move out...i suggest pack up and stay with some relatives for a while until you can sell your current place and get a new one.
Wow, that is a really harsh situation. I can\'t give you any better advice than has already been said, but I sincerely hope everything turns out for the best for you and your family. Best of luck to you all.
This sucks. For ten years i have fought to leglize marijuana and talking about how screwed up our police and goverment are , now i have to ask for help, i have always been on the other side of the law just because i promote leglization and work with atleast 8 underground bands, but now i have to look at it hthat my daughter is more important than anything and weither i like it or not i have to do what i have to do. I have already talked with a friend that use to run with him and he told me if i go to the police to stay out of the 3 countys that border ours because he has them on lock and will know before i can get out.He said this guy is real dangrous and if has the balls to carry that much drugs and money on him he will be willing to do anything. He said i was messing with the new scarface and i better watch my back.
nobody works for a dead guy....but thats just my 2 cents on what I would do if my family was in this situation...But thats just cuz this here is some movie shit...
me and my dad just got chased with a gun by my gf\'s parents recently, call the cops if you can, money isn\'t everything no matter what kind of loan you have to take out, just get your daughter and your family in a safe place, away from those 3 counties, out of the state, anywhere that you and your family will be safe. Please do everything you can to get your daughter back.
Your best bet is too just wait till your daughter calls again and tell her too calm down and do whatever he says till she can find a way too escape(1-2 weeks) cause it looks like the police wont do shit. After you have your daughter in your grasp just run dont call any police just leave too another state, from that point you can call Call the DEA or let Karma handle it its all up to you. DONT PANIC!!!
alright first thing i am going to do is get another place to live as far away from here that i can afford. then the next step is to get her. This all has to be done fast . I don\'t think i will call anybody at this time i will do whAT i can by lunch time and then think of the next step. this ain\'t a movie this is real with real lives at stake. One wrong move could be the last.
Make imedient plans to leave, going at least 150 miles away, and stay in a motel with your family. Dont tell a soul your leaving, or where your going, even good people you trust. Do it quikly, do it quietly, and do it after you make a plan and think it out, not before. wait it out for a long time, then call some friends or family and have them find out what the situation is before you come back, if in fact you even want to. leave. now. EDIT: I just read where you said your daughter wasnt with you. You need to call some sort of law enfocment such as the fbi or dea, or some law enforcement outside of your comunity. tell your daughter via phone that if worst comes to worst, pretend shes gonna sleep with him, and escape when hes beyond distracted.
Well, growing up I always remember my father saying if the family was in trouble by means of a bad person, he would have no problem putting a bullet in the guys head, and I would say I agree, but I cant condone that on these forums *wink* But the safest way really would be the DEA. As much as you hate them, it seems you need their help.
I really suggest not pannicking and telling your daughter next time she calls to not panic,never had any expereinces with this type of situation but I feel that would be your best chioce.