I apologize in advance for this rant but I took benadyl to fall asleep, forgetting that I have a reverse reaction to drowsy medicines (I forget the name of the condition) and Ive got nothing to do all night. Title says it all, tonight was such a pain in the ass and a nice family dinner was ruined. My girlfriend, my little brother and I go out to this local chinese/japanese restaurant because we are going away for a week on Saturday and thus we dont have any food in the house. So they sit down, I walk over to the Sushi chef who im friendly with and say hi and sit town at my table. Two seconds later this guy, about 40 pretty small like 5'7" and a little chubby stands up in his booth which is next to ours, but seperated by a barrier. He looks at us for a long time, like a minute so my girlfriend and I are just kinda looking at each other and then him. So he finally sits down and my little brother (Whos 7 years old) flicks the little straw twist thats left on when they get you a coke over the booth and it lands on that guys table. I tell him to not do that, you know the standard parent talk when the guy snaps. He screams, jumps up, and starts yelling "What the fuck is your problem? You assholes are ruining my meal. What the fuck!" and goes on and on. I stand up, Im about 6 foot, Ive got a muscular build (Not bragging but I work hard for it) and I had just gotten out of the gym so my muscle looked all pumped up, so Im towering over him and say "You stand over my family, curse in front of women, especially my woman, about a little kid that flicked a piece of paper onto your table. You need to learn to watch your mouth, I dealt with the problem, I told him it was wrong and you need to back off" I say this pretty calmly but hes not having any of it and keeps screaming "We outta go outside you fucking prick I should kick your ass for this, ruining my meal blah blah blah" So now Im pissed, I throw a 20 on the table (all was had ordered was drinks) and tell my girl to take herself and the kid outside. What this fucker didnt know is that I have a Permit to Carry in New Jersey, a fricken rarity in this state, and that I had a Glock 20 in 10mm tucked in my wasteband. As I walk over to him, I pull it in front of my tshirt but still tucked in as Im not going to use it or brandish it and get put behind bars, I just want to show this asshole that he should watch his mouth. I walk in front of his table, gun in full view and say "You should learn to check yourself when you dont know what youre dealing with." and walk out. ashgdllasgkgdsaspdas;jodaskjd;oas;kd UGHHH I hate when this shit happens. we drove to Mcdonalds and went home. It was so cute my little brother wouldnt speak for like 20 minutes and then he wispers in my girlfriends ear "I'm, I'm sorry Anna" In this tiny little voice. I dont understand shit like this.
+rep for handling it so beautifully. "My woman" agh, that woulda melted my heart. And I get a lot of assholes like that, living in the south. It just really pisses me off. Especially the ones that are rude to me at work. By then end of the day I just want to scream. There's nothing anyone can do about jerk-offs like that, but like i said, you handled it really well, imho.
pst, next time you spank your kid, and you blast that guy right in the eye JK But, good job, doubt the exposure of a gun was really necessary though if you're that big
nicely done, you handled it very well imo. as the guy above me said, i dont think the gun was necessary(sp?) but at least you didnt get violent right away, especially in front of your lil bro, setting a good example. and that 20 for drinks....wow.....what a great tip hahaha. EDIT: and i also know alot of assholes, not always to women......some guy (kinda know him, wanna be gangster type, claims norte blah blah) walked up and was like "ill fight you for your woman" hahaha i said "dude, whether i win or lose, and i'd only lose if you get your bitch ass friends to back you, you still wouldnt get my woman, so just back the fuck up before someone gets hurt, ok?" he hella acted like a bitch after that barely talked at all then just bounced outta nowhere.....hmmmm.....hate random people starting shit for nothing
on the contrary. Today my wife and I got in a little argument in front of an airport waiting for the shuttle. Shes pregnant so she cried about it and i was talking to her trying to fix the situation. Very VERY frustrated that shes crying i try to hold in my emotions(theyre flying at this point) I see this guy sitting down starring at us. I ignored it. continue talking to her and glance over again and hes still starring at us. IM like thinkin wtf, im looking at this guy he wont look away. I walk over to him " WTF IS YOUR PROBLEM YOU NOSEY PIECE OF SHIT" haha he turns his head away and ignores me. So i walk back to my wife. Lol shes embarressed as shit airport security(police HA) come and talk to me and blah blah blah turns out the guy was an offduty police officer concerned about the "crying lady" lmao, me and the offduty cop had a good laugh about this on the way to our destination( we were both waiting for the same shuttle.)
Nicely done. If you had whooped his ass outside the restaurant he prolly would have pressed charges, lol. +rep for being smooth.
hehe i was thinking the exact same thing! thats so sweet! but yeah good job at not losing it i know a lot of people who would have just been like "ok asshole your in for an asskicking"
my parents tought me a funny word for small guys, LITTLE MAN SYNDROME. i know an asshole with it. good way of handeling it, he seemed like a dillhole.
I got the permit to carry because my parents were lawyers, and good friends with everyone in the courthouse like the judges, officers, etc. I also worked there for a few summers so after everything that happened with my parents the judges kinda through me a favor and signed for it. And youre right that I probably didnt need to show it, but this guy had me to my wits end, and I wanted to show him that there are a lot of reprocusions for snapping on a stranger in public and it could have been a lot worse for his safety.
before my mom divorced my cocksucker alcoholic father she would always be like "just ignore that cocksucker, he has the short shit syndrome"
I would have handed the guy a deadly weapon prolly a knife, and wait for him to try to stab me, and then shoot him in self defense. Without a weapon in their possesion self defense is harder to prove. Also don't shoot them in the back, cause then it looks like they were running and you aren't going to get killed from that. Actually I probally would have done the exact same thing you did, just to see the look on the guys face. Id just like not let him see it, just cock the hammer like under my shirt so he knew what it was (from the sound) and be like 'anything to say now, bitch?'
Why do you believe the south has an overwhelming amount of assholes compared to our northern counterparts. I find it quite the contrary.
I wouldnt have done the gun thing, just beat his ass. I cannot stand people that swear in front of women and especially children.