sadly to say i hate my siblings to the point where i wont protect them at all if they get beat up/death threats. they younger then my by alot of years but everytime i go to visit they tell me to leave or go home and throw shit and hit me and i ignore them. then shit gets worst ill tell them to go away and leave me alone and they wont stop and then ill snap and then they go and run away and tell my parents i hit them or something stupid. i live alone and rent out my house but i love to go and visit my family but im at the point where i dont even wanna go there anymore and next time my parents ask me to watch them im saying no. i took them out to the store to get candy and they just treat me like shit the whole time. i brought my girlfriend over and my brother and sister calls her rude names and throws her stuff outside i dont know what to do! i cant yell or reason with them because they can get me in shit easily because they can fake cry like pros. my girlfriend cried because of these kids when we got home. my brother threatened her with a HAMMER! my brother 10 and my little sister 7 (if anyone is gonna ask) just gotta get this off my plate im gonna get to the point where i buy a video camera and hide it and show them what these fucking kids do!
all though i agree what little kids are a pain and it sounds like you've got ur shit together considering u rent your house... on the other hand they're 10 and 7....10...and...7 bro they're just little kids. Hell they might be a little bratty but really think about it... how does it look reflect on you being their 18+ brother, you gotta watch out for the little one's bro
dude i treat them like a big brother should yes i sometimes be a dick to them but they getting to the point where i wont protect them if they keep it up. i took them out places to have fun and they still treat me like shit!
they dont go to bed when i say i told ya they brats and im starting to hate them last night they were 10x worst then ever!
I know it is very controversial, and it is just my own opinion, but to me it sounds like all they need is a good beating. Now before anyone starts bitching, let me firstly say that when I say beating I don't mean literally beat the hell out of them, i just mean a little hit that's hard enough to let them know that they are out of line, but not hard enough to be considered abuse. I know nowadays everything has gone all 'PC' and many are against parents hitting their kids as punishment, but lets face it, it is much more effective than other measures such as a time out. I am only 20 years old, and when i was out of line as a kid, my parents would give me a little smack. Today i am very respectful to everyone, unless they give me some reason to not respect them, and i consider myself a decent person. Many of the kids you see that disrespect their parents, do whatever they want, and usually end up being juvenile delinquents, are people who's parents pretty much let them do whatever they want with no, or little consequences for their behavior. I know it is a crude comparison, but lets take a dog for example. If your dog shits in your house and all that happens is you put the the dog outside, the behavior will be much more likely to occur than if the dog had got a smack. Once again just my own opinion so no need for anyone to flame of neg rep me.
yes i see that i dont hit them. my brother says hes gonna put a bullet in my head? what kind of 10 year old talks like that please tell me?
That's no excuse man. I never acted like that towards anyone when I was that age. If I had a big brother I probably would've looked up to him like he was a king. It doesn't matter how old they are, they obviously have some issues that your parents need to sort out. If I had younger siblings like that I wouldn't visit them until that kind of behavior stopped. I don't wanna bag on your parents but I would say they're probably doing something wrong if those kids are acting like that. A little discipline will go a long way...
yeah i was a little shit as a kid and my parents smacked me but if i hit my brothers and sister theyll go crying to daddy and make the situation worst i ignore them but then they hit me with shit. they want attention or they just want me not around them anymore i dont know. its pretty sad that my little siblings hate me when i did nothing
yeah i was a little shit as a kid and my parents smacked me but if i hit my brothers and sister theyll go crying to daddy and make the situation worst i ignore them but then they hit me with shit. they want attention or they just want me not around them anymore i dont know. its pretty sad that my little siblings hate me when i did nothing
my parents dont "try" hard enough i said that im like look watch what these kids do spy on them when im there around me and how much disrespect they give me. and yes thats what i thought younger siblings do look up to there older siblings but ha they treat me like im a black sheep like i dont belong just because i moved out?
Well i guess your only option is to talk it out with your parents. Tell them how they made your GF cry because they were so rude. Tell them that their actions are unacceptable, and that they are driving you away from the family. There's no point trying to reason with your brother and sis, because how are you supposed to reason with the unreasonable? Whatever happens, i wish you luck, and i hope that everything works out with your family.
yeah they are driving me away and it will be soon to the point its like bye and the reason why my sister is bad because my brother is teaching her to be like him.
just yell at them and if your parents get mad just tell them " im not here because i have to be, im doing you a favor. They act like that again I won't come back to babysit." when i mean scream, just yell at the top of your lungs. trust me they will get scared.
Stop being a pussy and grow some balls. Tell your parents what little shits they are. Tell them that their kids are growing up to be ungrateful, spiteful, rude little pests that aren't going to go anywhere in life if they keep this shit up.
i know man, my bro is a fag, whenever i smoke in my room or my friends come over and we all smoke my brother will be the only one not smoking and just play music about weed. Thing is he used to smoke but he stopped. I mean when im high and im near my sister i dont like it when my fag ass brother tells her and all her friends " he is 10 feet above the ground.. he is 100 feet above the ground." Thats his way saying im high.. honestly, this kid needs to get laid.