I got a girl problem!

Discussion in 'General' started by Buddeh, May 18, 2008.

  1. This might be a long read so sorry.

    Getting to the point there is this girl who is my sisters friend who I always thought was cute. One major problem she has a boyfriend who she has been dating for a year and a half. The thing is I always had a crush on her but about 6 months ago she started flirting with me every now and then. I thought it was nice but I knew she had a boyfriend so I would never flirt back. One time she came over to my house when no one else there but me and her. We started watching a porn and she wanted me to jerk off in front of her. Kind of weird, I know but I did it. Well after that I told her brothers who I was close with and they ended up telling someone which got to her. She told me we were done and she didn't want to talk to me well 3 days after that happened (this was a few months ago) she came up to me in school and was like "Can you come over after school I really want to talk to you?" Of course I said yes. I was still mad at her though because she still denied that it happened to everyone. Well we made up I guess and were friends again.

    After that, we would still flirt all the time. Except it led to long talks on the phone. Im talking like (4-6 hour conversations). We just really liked eachother. She would tell me she wish I was her boyfriend sometimes. I love this girl. I really do. She loves me back. She told me so. We got drunk like 2 months ago when she came to visit my sister and spent the night. Well we made out. Her boyfriend went off to GED camp for National Guard. During these 2 weeks we would hang out all the time. The reason we didn't before because her boyfriend lives with her. On easter her family all went out while she stayed home sick. She told me to come over and we watched movies and cuddled and held hands. I think you guys have a pretty good picture of what it was like. Lets fast forward now to yesterday. Yesterday she had to drop her boyfriend off for Drill and he was going to be gone all night (hes back today) and she wanted to hang out with me. Well we drove around and parked somewhere and started talking. She layed her head on my chest and then she starts touching my pants right where my dick is. She starts getting horny I can tell and undoes my belt buckle and unzips my pants. She ended up giving me head. The only reason we didn't bang was because she was on her period. Now I have so much strong feelings towards this girl and she has them back. She is really confused because she tells me how bad she wants to be with me but she is afraid of letting go of her boyfriend. This guy is a jackass though. He once told her when he got mad at her that shes the reason people commit suicide. She lost all her friends because of him. Well next week is last week of school and I won't be able to see her at all during the summer due to her boyfriend living with her. The thing is I talked to her about this last night and was like "Who are you going to choose? I wont be able to see you all summer if your with him?" She felt really bad but didn't say anything. What should I do? I really want to be with her but I don't know how to tell her that its been eating me up inside. I hate to be the bearer of bad news. I love her, I really do. I tell her so many times to break up with her boyfriend. I'm thinking about on Friday (last day of school) giving her a note saying how much I love her and why she makes me so happy and if she really loves me back she will break up with her boyfriend. Idk. Help me out GC.
     
  2. In responce to the thread title, seems like EVERYONE does. Maybe summer just spells disaster for relationships, or all the lil kids are commin on for summer vacation.


    You should use betyter paragraphs, thats too blocked up for me to even attempt to read dogg.
     
  3. well..the way i see it, this girl is just trying to have her cake and eat it too..she doesnt want to let go of her current man, but fucks around with you...if you really like her, but dont want to get ur heart broken think of it this way..she had t have really liked him at one point and now shes cheating on him..do you honestly thin that she wont do the same to you and show zero restraint if she starts to like someone...flirting is one thing, she crossed that line, and do u really want someone you know can lie and cheat with such ease?

    then again..i could be wrong, i dont kno her personally, but you asked what should u do...you already told her that she needs to choose..back that up and also tell her that your not going to play second fiddle anymore that if she REALLY wants you to be her man then she should make that happen, not just bounce between you and her current bf

    i went thru something similar with a guy i knew since 1st grade, he started going to my highscool and we really hit it off, he would always bitch about his gf and said that we should be together, even his friends loved me and said that he shoulda left her..but he nvr did..then she broke it off with him a few later and robbed his ass since they actually got married after he graduated and he didnt sign a prenap and then i was in his radar again..i just laffed at him..i doubt she'll leave him
     
  4. Yeah, Im probably just going to tell her that if she really does want to be with me then she will break up with him.
     
  5. Make her choose between you and him. Im sure she will choose you. make sure you make it clear to her that she's choosing between you who talks with her and cuddles and all that stuff, between the guy who seys "Your why people commit suicide"
     
  6. Yeah. Funny thing about that night. When he told her that she ran off into the woods crying. She sent me a text saying she really needed me. so I call her and ask her whats up. Almost instantly I cheered her up. It wasn't even 2 minutes.
     
  7. Watch out for girls fresh on the rebound.
     
  8. I dunno, if you're having girl problems I feel bad for you son, I got 99 problems...

    Just think, 20 years down the line will you want to smack yourself in the forehead when you think of this whole deal?
     
  9. it seems like she enjoys spending more time with you more than her boyfriend
     
  10. You guys! Always with the girl problems. :D
     
  11. Haha. 99 Problems but a bitch aint one. Lmao. I really want to be with her though. I know she will probably pick me. But theres always that feeling that if she doesn't how bad it would suck.
     
  12. same with me, but a bitch aint one :)
     
  13. sounds like ur justa booty call from wat i read
     
  14. i JUST WANNA SAY.... If she would fuck around with you while she has a boyfriend, then she would fuck around ON you with another dude. Let the guy keep his slutty girlfriend IMO.
     
  15. aint that the fucking truth, I got worse problem than this kid, this girl I have been trying to bone since the 10th grade fucked my best friend and I am in that "friend" area now with her, she isn't going to date him or nothing but it does make it harder on me to fuck her.
     
  16. You know what? You could have found a nicer way of saying that asshole. I'm sorry but I really care about this girl and you come in here trashing her. I'm sorry man but you have NO idea whatsoever what kind of connection we have at all. It's not like she just knew me for a few months and did this. She knew me for over a year atleast.
     
  17. tap it hard son
     
  18. just bang her and leave not worth the time
     
  19. Wow for those of you who had insightful posts on the subject, I thank you. For the other people don't enter my thread posting meaningless bullshit.
     
  20. im the only person who helped. and i stand by my previous statement

    tap it hard.
     

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