I think it's ridiculous for girls to get upset at their boyfriends for watching porn. Hell, I watch porn whether I'm in a relationship or not. It's just an easy way to get off. You can't be with your boyfriends at all hours of the day to pleasure them so might as well let them have at it. Porn is impersonal and I don't consider it cheating at all. So long as they don't start enjoying porn more than the actual act of sex than I'm totally fine with it.
I'm pretty sure I know what I'm doing but that's a little to private for my taste. I'm going to talk to him about it and perhaps, "help" him watch them.
does it make you feel a little insecure that he's pleasuring himself while looking at other women? that would be a pretty natural instinct if you are feeling a bit insecure, it could be part of your aversion to his porn-watching.
The only problem here was you found out your boyfriend was doing it, he needs to delete that history better.
One: technically porn is forbidden to both troops and prisoners. both find ways to sneak it in. for the troops, you just have to keep it put away and generally no one makes a big deal out of it, as long as you're not putting on puppet shows every night in your rack. Two: in this town the only single females close to my age have more issues than Times magazine. No thanks, I'll stick to imagination and pron.
guys like sex. sex is awesome. porn is better than amateur sex. those are the reasons but i agree that if the guy has a gf then porn isnt needed btw, i dont think a lot of guys watch a 7.5 get plowed by a black dude haha. more like an 11 getting plowed by someone but in ur head your that someone
porn is pretty funny, from a cinematic point of view, it's also kind of disheartening. some guys though, aren't boyfriend material, and who really wants a world full of testosterone fueled beasts running around trying to get their rocks off cuz they're sexually frustrated? i for one don't. there is some sick shit out there though.
lol OP is doin' something wrong. But, forreal. My last girlfriend and I used to fuck a few times a day, one time at the least. But when I went home and was chillin' on the computer before I went to bed, or wasn't going to see her for a few hours, why not? You get bored of them, no matter how mind-blowing the sex is. It was the best sex with the finest chick I've ever had and she had the nicest body. Still got bored of it within 3-4 months. Lasted a year in that relationship by watching porn and taking a break from only looking at her.
Until I've seen every pair of titties that exist I don't think I'll ever get tired of seeing a new pair. Good luck finding a dude that is happy with only ever seeing you naked OP, hahaha.
unfortunately, porn won't wash your dishes.... Honestly though girl, you should a. Just say "fuck it" and let him do whatever. b. Join him and try to watch a few. c. Make this a big issue that might end a relationship. He might even say "sure baby i'll stop" Within weeks (if that long) he'll be watching porn again, and touching himself yet, again. That's how we are. My ex had an issue with it too. My current gf kinda did, but now she just watches with me occasionally. Hell, when she plays with herself and i'm not home she'll watch it by herself.
I never got why anyone would even care about their significant other watching porn... The only thing I've ever been able to account it to (and I hope no one takes this offensively) is a jealousy thing. Like your significant other is not allowed to be turned on by anything other than you. It's just watching a video of some people banging and getting off to it. Who cares? Why should anyone feel threatened or annoyed about that?
I think it's a self control thing. Since guys usually do want to fuck all the time, I believe it's a side affect of testosterone. Age does help with that though. I do understand how it would affect a relationship. To that end, I think if you show a guy that you understand the compulsion, it will get a bit easier. You might not necessarily have to watch porn with him, but maybe it would help? Dunno.. I've fucked my ex with porn in the background and it was kinda hot, but I never did it for that reason. It could backfire on you in some way.
I see a lot of the points in this thread. Watching porn instead of being with your girl can definitely play into their insecurities. I can understand if that hurts. Then again, all you men make valid points. Idk....porn sucks. Hahahahaha. I think if anything it makes women think they need to be some porn star. So they're probably worrying about living up to what they are not. Or believing their men are constantly fantasizing about someone else. That sucks. My opinion, I'd prefer if you didn't, but wtf am I supposed to do? Watch what you're looking up on the comp? I'm not even gonna waste my time. Just make sure you fuck me good later...and don't say someone else's name. All in all, I just don't wanna know.
Im glad im not like you, fuck i watch more porn than my boyfriend. its tottally natural to fantisize and even if he didint watch porn he'd b thinking about somone eles somtimes, you cant help that so deal with it or marry a hard-core christian.
My girlfriend watches porn quite frequently and it kind of bothers me.. (I'm a girl.) I mean, it's not like I'd ever tell her not to, but it does make me feel somewhat insecure. I don't need to watch porn to masturbate, so I guess I don't see why other people do. Hahaha I don't really find people's genitals to be all that attractive so seeing something that just focuses on that is kind of unappealing anyway. And the fake noises they make are laughable. But it kind of makes me feel unsexy knowing that she watches other chicks.. At least she only does it when we're not together I guess.. (And we do have sex quite often when we're together so it's not like I just don't put out.) But like DancingVinodini said, as long as I don't hear about it all the time I don't really care.
My god quit being so whiny... If i were him I'd dump you just for bitching about porn. Just saying. What if he had issues with your weed saying your love was more then enough to keep you both happy and weed was destroying the relationship or some bullshit like that... I hate women. And yea, I stay single.. Yet my last 3 ex's i've told to kick rocks and get the fuck outta my pad so..