only time i feel happy is when good things happen to me isnt that a sign of insecurity or something? cuz im forever alone and one of my best friends is as well. right now he is close to getting out of it, and i don't feel happy at all for him, a bit jealous is all really
I feel happy for people when they get what they deserve. For example, a kid getting a liver transplant to save his life. Things like that bring a smile to my face.
Idk man, i almost never feel anything for other people, even people im extremely close with. Weather something really good or really bad happens to them, i have no feeling for them. They could break down crying and all ill feel is a little irritated because i hate listening to people cry. Maybe im just a cynical, emotionless asshole, but thats how it is
well i still care for him id just prefer him to stay forever alone like me so i have someone to relate to im not like patrick bateman budzilla up there i just care more for myself than others, which i think everyone is like as well
That means you're not happy with yourself. Become truly happy, and happiness for others comes naturally. You really can't feel happy for your friend who's making positive changes in his life?
i wish i cud, its hard tho we've discussed this before and i thought i wud feel happy for him but now i just feel jealous
Werd if a person is in need of something and finally get it, they feel relieved and happy. Negative emotions comes with a distorted style of thinking/perception, people can lie and be denial say they don't use emotions but when in reality they do.
u wudnt care if your parents or close friends died? if ur being real than i think u shud see a mental health professional about psychopathy ah cool, i found a checklist on psychopathy Hare Psychopathy Checklist - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia. used in clinical settings
The funny thing is, I told one of my best friends last night that I think he has psychopathic tendencies. He agreed. As for 'i wish i culd, its hard tho'; man the fuck up. Life is hard, and you will never get the most out of it until you're happy. If it's really that hard for you to be happy, you've never experienced real difficulty. Broaden your horizons.
Is it fucked up that every trait in factor 1 and 2 describe me to a t? lol Idk, i just lack emotions if im being honest. Its been like that as long as i can remember. Over the years ive gotten really good at faking emotions in situations where i know i would be expected to act a certain way.
Eh Life isn't that bad, I used to be cynical then I realized I sound like an depressed maniac that can't find happiness within himself. You should develop an inner world with comes with intra-personal intelligence, it would solve any internal conflict in your mind that circulates negativity and from that you'll be a happier, calm human being.
that makes zero sense not to mention you don't know anything about my life, so i don't see why u are already assuming i've never had "real difficulty"
[quote name='"Faramir"']only time i feel happy is when good things happen to me isnt that a sign of insecurity or something? cuz im forever alone and one of my best friends is as well. right now he is close to getting out of it, and i don't feel happy at all for him, a bit jealous is all really[/quote] Lol omg that's me... I can feel happy but then jealousy or just the fact that I don't care gets in the way.
this I felt like that from the middle of puberty (7th-8th grade?) to my mid 20s. Maybe, maybe not. You're going to be living on this flying rock for a lot longer (I'd imagine) so you better get used to the idea of self improvement or get used to stagnancy and depression. It sucks and it takes a long time but the human condition isn't anything new. A good start is making more than 1 friend. Variety is the spice of life. I wonder how many more cliches I can stuff in before you realize no one has any clue whats going on in your head except you. Fix it or get used to it.