When it comes down to it I can only call a handful of people that are my friends. The one from high school that even introduced me to weed is probably the best friend Ive ever had. She moved off and we occasionally stay in touch. Well she came into town and she texted me she was at the mall. I just got up so I took a shower got breakfast, ect and left. I get near there and suddenly she says her dad wants her home soon. So Im fighting all the traffic just to find a place to stop and ask her where she was. She tells me where shes goin so I park my car close to there and go in. Shes not there. Then I ask her if shes still around and she says she left to go get booze then go home. I cant tell if she didnt want to see me or what but that kinda pissed me off. She asked if I could meet her up there but then she wont tell me where she is and then just leaves when she knows Im there.
Did you say "Hey, let's meet there then."? If you did not, then she probably didn't know you wanted to meet up.
True, I didnt exactly say that, but she did know I was there and looking for her. She took about 10 min to respond so when I get to where she said she was she was already gone
Well then, it seems you two could smoke a blunt tomorrow then. Have you contacted her after the whole hide and seek thing?
:/ that sucks that she not around all the time... i know girls can be mad sketch every now and then. just let it go i guess. or just wait to see if you get a response. I got this one girl that'll text me all day, then say she can't come thru... we wont talk for weeks, then she'll come thru at like 12pm and smoke me up... ...who knows man who knows.
Hmmm... Sounds like she's out getting hammered on that booze she got. Yeah man, some people are flaky. I know I am, and I'm trying to correct it.
Its her dads b-day. Thats not why im really sweating it because she did say she was planning his party so its not like she just left for no reason. Shes not the kind that fucks you over for no reason
kay so what's the problem? Call her up and be like "Hey, wanna hangout and smoke with me tomorrow and catch up on things? I miss smoking and talking with you."
yo don't take it personally, since it was her dad's b-day she might have actually got caught up in shit. I know I've been like that before with friends, when I'm really busy but at the same time I feel like I need to see my friends because I don't have enough time until i leave back for college, I'll tell people if they wana hang out to come to this place, but a lot of the time they take longer than i expected, so I'm usually moving on to my next errand lol... she prob tried to fit seeing you into her busy schedule with her dad etc. I felt down about this aswell because I realized what I was doing, and I felt like they would hate me but I really didn't mean to.
When visiting home after moving away, if you're the social type, you can literally be pulled in 100 directions, and be expected to see 8 different people and hang out in the 2 days you're there for the weekend, add in family shit taking up time, and the business you were initially in town to do, and by the time you leave you're worn out and everyone still feels shunned. I wouldn't sweat it dude. If you guys are good friends just stay in touch and ramp up the commuinitcation next time she's coming to town to emphasize that you'd like to hang out more.
the way I see it not everyone has the same..call it social skills (but I'm grasping for the proper term) as each other, when to you it feels like being blown off to her it might of been just plans that didn't work out. Also Mushroom, this is one of the most human posts I'v seen by you. Its nice to see that you have feelings
man, thats our generations M.O.....seriously. And I cant stand it. If you all of a sudden cant make it, tell me. And answer my fuckin call when i call you. Id much rather you tell me like a man than ignore my calls for an hour like a fuckin pussy. kids today dont know the real definiton of friend. and that is truly sad. I really hope everythin works out for ya bro, and that hopefully this was all a big misunderstanding