Well, when I graduated from high school I was 18 years old and had never had a girlfriend, but I was ok, always telling my self that eventually things would work out. Problem is that here I am, over 23 and I haven't even kissed a woman yet, I know that I am not that old, but I also know that now days a guy at my age is somewhat strange to never had a date.Believe me I've tried approaching women, and still do, I tried becoming friends first( completely inefficient if you ask me), tried cold approaches( at bars, clubs and school parties) , and rejections were all I got. I don't know what is driving women away, if it's my personality or my appearance. Personality wise I can tell you that I am quiet, not shy but reserved, and I am not that kind of person that would act all cocky and loud. I have always respected people and I am very honest and open. I really don't know where I have to change ... Am I missing a lot in life, never having had any kind of relationship? Do women really expect a guy my age to have some back ground on relationships, or is it just overrated? I hear people saying that today women approach guys and that is very easy to find a date, but seriously...I have never ever been approached, or saw a lady giving me that " green light" approach signal that everybody talks about it..do wome really make the first move?